guys tell me that after makeingout with somone does ur new partner(husband) can tell that u had madeout with someone?
2007-05-13 06:21:40 · 21 answers · asked by pooja p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am tring to say that i am just 18 and was abut to had sex with my byfrnd, but i stopped because i thought,what if my husband will find that i have already made out with someone,while we both will make out.but i know its not got but i want to be close with him too, i dont know what to do, i felt so bad because it was such a beautiful moment we both were about to spend,but because of my fear nothing happened!!i felt so guilty,and so that why i want help of u people who i beleive must be having knowledge to help me out!i that iwhy i wanna know that after my marrige will my husband will find out bye seeng my organs. i just dont understand this why the hell only girls have to sacrifise with thier feeling all the time!!
2007-05-13 19:26:58 · update #1
Yes, they can tell. How could you cheat on him already?
2007-05-13 06:24:14 · answer #1 · answered by Black 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too young to be married. This is the problem in this day and age. You don't know the answer to this question because you are still a baby who needs to be dating. No, you husband cannot tell if you have been kissing someone else. Unless you smell like his cologne or you have a hickey on your neck. Men can however tell if you womanly parts feel different. Your vagina molds to whoever you are with consistenly. If your husband is as young as you are he probaly won't be able to recognize though. Sweetie, consider not being married. From experience you may be 25 and wonder what the hell you were thinking getting married before you new what was out in the world. I was married at 18 and had two children by the time I was 19. I am 26 and bored out of my mind with my life. My husband walks all over me and I do not feel like I have ever had any fun. I have NEVER even been in a club or bar. Is this what you want for yourself. Instead of being so caught up in men, have fun, get an education and then settle down to have and raise a family. A divorce is much more complicated than a marrige at the drop of a dime. Think long and hard while you keep your pants on and your tongue in your mouth.
2007-05-21 06:13:25 · answer #2 · answered by M. Nurse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While I couldn't really understand what exactly was said, it looks like you are 18, married, and making out with guys besides your husband. Want help? Ditch the other guys and quit doing that. When you married your husband, did you lie when you said you'd "forsake ALL others"? Or did you mean it? If you meant it, you'll ditch all others and never do that again.
2007-05-21 06:04:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl your husband to be will appreciate you more if your good in bed so practiced there's nothing wrong if you have sex with someone before you get into marriage. You would be replaced faster if your innocent in making love you have to know how to please the your husband to be in bed so he will not look for another woman in the middle of your marriage or worst from the beginning of your relationship as a b/f and g.f he will started cheating on you coz you can't give him what he wants.
2007-05-21 05:28:02 · answer #4 · answered by siverdust 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is very easy.A girl who is virgin ,her hymen is normally not ruptured but if she has sexual intercourse for one or two times two fingers may go in vagina easily.There are other reasons when hymen may be ruptured,but are exceptions.One should now abstain.Dear girl you are 18 and how you are involves in such dirty game? in no time you will be on roads and your parents will have to shame for you. Study hard if you can afford or get legally married and forget the past. It is making you aware.
2007-05-19 06:00:03 · answer #5 · answered by baba 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you are so experienced that it's obvious;it's not like it shows on your face or anything but... if you are young enough to be worried about this, maybe you are too young to be making out. Make sure you use birth control at least. You can go to planned parenthood to get cheap birth control and your parents don't need to know. I don't think that's great but at least it is better for them than finding out that you are active due to pregnancy. Best of luck to you.
2007-05-13 06:26:20 · answer #6 · answered by Wildfire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhhhm i have no idea why you are married if you are making out with someone else... and yes most the time guys can tell. or at least tell something is definitely wrong. if i was you i would dedicate yourself to your husband and only him, if you cant do that then i dont see why you are in a relationship at all, being a Boyfriend or a husband...
2007-05-21 03:44:50 · answer #7 · answered by Garrette H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There sure are ways to find that out. But they are not fool proof. So you did it huh? You didn't wonder about this question before you did it, so what's the point in thinking about it now?
All the best...
:-)
2007-05-13 11:21:31 · answer #8 · answered by plato's ghost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody can't find out whether your are virgin or non virgin
past is past, be honest in future be control yourself its very difficult but you must do. otherwise life is not in your hand,
pl take onerole model friend- 100% good charcter friends are in your school be friendship with them
pl don't spoil your life
2007-05-16 18:40:21 · answer #9 · answered by Murugesan g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rarely a Girl is the best Actor - personal experience from my bitchy wife!!
2007-05-13 06:28:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't settle for one man and be faithful, then don't marry and you won't have a problem. You can play the field.
2007-05-21 06:08:03 · answer #11 · answered by p00756 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋