She did not approve of my husband and that was the problem. Anyway, I have to go to my wonderful in law's home today and maybe to a friend's cookout. They are wonderful and treat me like a daughter. I just can't get up and going. I don't want to feel this way. How can I get out of this rut and get up and take a bath and do things around here that need to be done and still have a good day? I am very depressed. I took my medicine, but I just can't function.
2007-05-13 04:02:05 · 12 answers · asked by just julie 6 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Sometimes it is nessesary to say goodbye to a parent because they are harming you... but the thing you can do is to look for motherlike figures you would accept in that role... take your inlaws to heart and give them your mothersday love, even if it hurts. Of course it hurts. loss always does. but you may gain new love in your life if you tell yourself to get others in that capcity around you, and they will be glad for the love they get too... even if you don't feel happy. hope you find your way... just hang in there... :)
2007-05-13 04:10:13 · answer #1 · answered by freebird31wizard 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you should send her an email card and a reg card. Someone must be the better person. Show you are mature no matter how she feels about your husband. Also, may a friendly call even if you get the machine tell her you were thinking of her and you want to move on kindly and ask her to call back. If you get her and she starts in just remind her you still love her and respect that she is trying to look out for you but you have made an adult decision as she has taught you. May it short and to point wishing her the best and keep in touch. You should also look to others that you find motherly. Have fun hon. If your a mom too remember this for your daughter how it felt so you dont make the mistake urs did. Happy mothers day!
2007-05-13 04:20:40 · answer #2 · answered by mcalano77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had my first at sixteen.as quickly as your toddler is born you will comprehend what to do.till now the toddler arrives flow to three antenatal classes to prepare your self for the start and maybe some teenage parenting skills classes. you will possibly be purely as stable a mom as aa thirty 365 days previous and don't enable every physique make you think of distinctive.i'm hoping you have help from a pal or family contributors member while you evaluate that can assist you thru.you additionally can proceed your training at a school that has centers for teen mums have been you may take your toddler too ,so which you do not might desire to finally end up with a rubbish interest. stable success! countless the proper mothers are teenage mothers , purely bear in concepts that.
2016-12-11 08:13:17 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I know how you feel. I lost my mon when I was 16. I still miss her, 42 years later. It never will go away. You just have to go and 'take her' with you. If you feel like she is with you, forgetting the past experiences, you will have a better day.
Have you tried to initiate contact with her? She may be feeling the same way. Good relations or bad relations, she won't be here forever, and once she is gone, it is will be hard to talk to her.
2007-05-13 04:14:00 · answer #4 · answered by gsublett1949 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My mom died two years ago from Alzheimers and I would do almost anything to have prevented her suffering. My son can't be with me for Mother's Day, so I think I know a little about what you are going through. I will be alone all day, but I am going to treat it like any other day and just keep on keeping on.
2007-05-13 04:08:55 · answer #5 · answered by judyarb1945 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
weather she appreciates it or not,for your sake be the bigger person and call to say happy mothers day,,just to know you made the effort and not let her problems ruin your day,otherwise guilt will ruin your day,cuz you will sit around feeling like the bad daughter,get up your courage and bite the bullet and have a smile in your voice,like the world is a better place with her in it,worked for me,made me feel good about the way I handled it ,even if I could still hear a slight condesending tone now and then,took off and enjoyed my day and didnt dwell,first person that gave me a hug that day made me feel great! try it!
2007-05-13 04:13:59 · answer #6 · answered by simplyred 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For what reason your mom could not accept your hubby you should know and try to make them compromise each other.I do noted quite number of cases like yours, it is always the mother felt insecure after their daughter married.In fact your mom need treatment and if you could encourage her to but it is not easy.
For your depression, try Bach Flower Remedy it help a lot,you look into e-shearch.
2007-05-13 04:28:51 · answer #7 · answered by Gew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just appreciate that U have such a wonderful Mother-in-law. Maybe U need to reconcile with Ur own mother because one days she's not gonna be there anymore and U will regret not being able to see and talk to her.
2007-05-13 04:06:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, do your part and just mail her a beautiful card. Dont care how she feels or do with it. Just tell yourself that she was crying with tears of joy when she saw it and silently hope that she could have the courage to make up with you.
2007-05-13 04:07:40 · answer #9 · answered by Vico 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am stile looking for my son, i will never give up on lost my daughter this past year and my grand daughter was brought to me very sad and having her with me has been something else she looks like her mom depressed big time over that but lucky to have my grand child.
2007-05-13 04:09:18 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋