Is this a turn on or turn off? I'm flatter that he finds me attractive but? I don't know what to do. I like him but I think it's too soon. Should I continue talking to him or is this a red flag? I am older and I don't date much. Help!!! Tell me what you think?
2007-05-13 02:22:06 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It means he is a "Horn Dog" leave him alone!!!!!!!! You'll get your heart broke if you think of him in any other way than just sex!!!!!!!!! If you are just needing a "Booty Call" then he's your man. If you give in remember he may be one of those that has many other woman but still comes around to get what he can off of each and every one of you. BEWARE for your hearts sake...................HE WILL LIE.........
2007-05-13 02:24:40 · answer #1 · answered by char__c is a good cooker 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't neccesarily say it's a red flag... only after you've already let him know that you'd like to wait and he keeps pressing the issue and/or leaves you alone for not wanting to go there when he wants to.
Men will think about sex reguardless. Some are a little better at keeping the convo topic of it at bay but for the most part they're still thinking about it. But if that's ALL he talks about then yeah... it's time to move on because then it becomes an issue of respect.
2007-05-13 16:20:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure exactly what kind of answer you're looking for. It depends on you ---if talking about sex turned you on or off!
I think that if everyone was more up front about what they wanted in a relationship it would save both parties a lot of heart ache. All the biggies as I call them should be talked about---Sex, Religion, Children and family---this would enable both parties to know if the relationship was worth the time and effort! Have to have honesty though!
2007-05-20 14:45:50 · answer #3 · answered by michigangranny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the first thing he talks about is sex then he just wants to get in your pants. And you being 'older and don't date much' is not a factor. You shouldn't even think that because you don't date much you should just give it up. And it's cool he thinks you're attractive but you should get to know him a bit to know what he's like and if he isn't your type then drop him.
2007-05-13 02:27:14 · answer #4 · answered by mKsTpN0y 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's a turn off for sure,it like talking to a pervert or something for me.Praising a girl should be a nice thing to do when you are only first time meet him but talk about sex?!!!Uh oh..I think he only looking for a one night stand or something but not sincere enough to be your friends.About those dating things,maybe you can try to go out socialize more,i mean maybe hang with a friends or something?
2007-05-21 02:07:21 · answer #5 · answered by jazzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you know he is not gay. Nothing wrong with just talking sex. But if he tries something and you don't like it well then that's time for the red flag
2007-05-13 02:43:52 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me, it's a turn-off because it is no indication of how the relationship will go. And he hasn't waited to see if I'm interested but started trying to talk about to see if I'm interested - which is close to just coming out and asking for it.
You can always say, 'Let's not talk abou that' and see what he says. It might lead to more talking or it might lead to the guy moving on.
2007-05-20 20:40:33 · answer #7 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me this would be a turn off! If he starts talking about sex right away then this is probably the only thing he is looking for.I prefer men who don't talk about it much but do it perfect.I'm sure you know what I mean? Be careful take it slowly and remember men will try to tell you what ever they think that you may want to hear to get you into their bed.Not all men are that way...BUT most!
Good Luck and God Bless.
2007-05-13 02:28:28 · answer #8 · answered by Michael Jackson 1958 - FOREVER 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Code red,get out of there!
He has already identified u as a piece of meat.
Any sex talk shouldn't be brought up for at least 3-5 dates into getting to know eachother.
From a male mind,trust me.Be careful, id get out!
2007-05-13 02:42:51 · answer #9 · answered by n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he knows you are not a child, and therefore assumes you know what sex is all about, but too much sex talk can be a warning..it is up to you to stop it..or let it continue..but is should be a red flag if he is persistant about it.
2007-05-21 01:13:26 · answer #10 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the best way to find out is to see exactly how far he's willing to go. If he talks about it all the time he might never of had it and may choke up when you try. On the other hand if he tries to go along with it, I'd only go so far then leave him hi and dry. If he's too eager to rush it then it's nor worth it and you should find companionship elsewhere.
2007-05-13 02:25:27 · answer #11 · answered by lauraking83 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋