I know a woman whos husband is a real prince. He spends HIS money on drugs, booze and other women. He thinks he's the best thing out there. He treats his wife and kids like 2nd class citizens. He makes good money but spends it mostly on himself. Now he's letting his wife sell her eggs for $7,000 and she thinks he will put in a kitchen that he tore out last year in august and blew the insurance money he recieved to put it back..( Had some mold on 1 wall and went crazy taring out everything) She says they need the money for the kitchen and the risk of complications is only 1% . I told her any good man would stop going to the bars and get a second job before he would let his wife, the mother of his kids do that. She has been with him 10 years and don't think she is worthy of anything but what he demands of her. She has no self respect left but wants a kitchen. I told her to wake up and kick him out and i'll put in a kitchen for her and take care of her and her kids. What do u think?
2007-05-13 02:07:11 · 7 answers · asked by dan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I wouldn't think of putting anyone's health at risk for money, expecially my wife who is the mother of my kids!!!
2007-05-13 05:32:28 · update #1
I don't know why she is still there. I think it's awful for a man with a family to take away their security by blowing it on himself in that way. She may not realize it yet, but she would be much better off without him, even though it means starting over. I think women like her have low self esteem and lack the confidence to get out there and start over alone. I think it;s great that you have offered to help her. Just be careful as you don't want to get caught in the middle of their relationship. Continue to be her friend and encourage her to find some help and take her children to move on and start their lives over again without him. Not only is he being disrespectful but could cause his family danger with his drug doings.
2007-05-13 02:28:10 · answer #1 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave now, don't wait! Get those kids and go, it doesn't sound like you will be missed. If he has been violent to you the police can help, and he doesn't have to know where you moved to. Try Kansas, they are a woman's state... they protect the woman's rights more than a mans.
2007-05-13 09:12:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like a good man.stay in her life she needs you.She may only be with him because of the kids.when he blows the money from her eggs and the kitchen is not fixed,she may get fed up.maybe should don't realize how much money you can spend on coke and how often a person has to have it.
2007-05-13 10:06:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that is really nice of you if i were her i would leave him but she probably thinks you would just be like him too... just spend more time with her and try to get her self respect up before you do anything drastic
2007-05-13 09:25:36 · answer #4 · answered by Ashley C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She need's to take her kid's and leave now..That man is a loser and the children deserve a better life..
2007-05-13 09:13:48 · answer #5 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is what needs to happen! Period! No questions asked! That is not a man! He is scum!
2007-05-13 09:12:13 · answer #6 · answered by fjerseyman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what an asshole... I would kick his ***... teach him a lesson
2007-05-13 09:11:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋