can i win in my life?

Question

thank u all for ur answers

Answer 1

Only if you want to treat your life as a game and the world is willing to agree. Life in my experience is unfortunately and inconveniently far more serious. Treating life as a gains and loss tally is problematic in that it's focused on future potentials that we're never certain of and past losses rather than the important part of focusing on the now. There is no future, it hasn't come. There is no past, it's done. There's only THIS instant and if you are going to "play" it has to be NOW.

Well, all that said, if you are still focused on "winning" you should know the rules, and YES, there are rules. We often applaud ourselves for gaining mastery over the physical world with planes, trains, computers, and the internet. OH HOW FAR WE HAVE COME!! But we only did that by playing by the rules. We learned scientific knowledge that allowed us to create technology that accomplished our goals. In otherwords, we observed and accomodated our desires and goals to the rules of the world. Thereby, we "profited".

The same "rules" exist among humans in the form of written laws, social norms, and growth of families. It's a far more complicated game than the strictly straight forward rules of physical reality. In reality gravity pulls you down, that's it. But in the world of human interaction, they pull you down, push you up, spin you around and blow you away. In the area of ethics I can only say, be kinder to each other. Remember that the hopes and fears in you are the same as those in the heart of your fellow man. When you realize that connection, you'll understand there's no game to win. It's all the same team, just different places, different stages and different faces.

Good fortune.

Answer 2

The question i.e can i win in life ?- not a question till it is not explained completely . In fact, wining in life does`t mean that if you have achieved any goel during your life period - is win in life, it is therefore, it is most important thing to have an idea that life is full of events and that can be covered to win - that you must have the meaning of life---However, It is suggested that if you realy want know that how can you win in life then you must follow the the followings ;-

1- You should have the passence to tackle the situation what so ever is occured during you life , and

2- That you should adopt the procesure of WAIT AND WATCH -means that you should not react immediatly or to go for quick answer of the situation or take it as un-resolved fact.

3- And finally but not the least that in case if you fail to resolve the situation then you must get in touch with your wellwisher and discuss the matter and then take your own decision .
Mind it your eternal satisfaction is most important whether right or wrong to win in your life.

Regards
R. Sharma

Answer 3

In the question these are the parameters- WIN, I, LIFE, and CAN-Time. Do you really, can define these parameters to precision. So the normal understanding is that, you want to succeed, in a race of events. Objectively use the various factors that are in the situation, weigh them its pros and cons, and weight your capacities, abilities and intelligence. Ponder over it, and find whether is a Cohan's of winning the situation or the person. See whether time is on your side to complete the task. Then if you wisdom says yes, act perform and get through the job with an open silent and peaceful mind. The best will come about, and you will win.

Answer 4

Good work Charles. Keep up the spirit. I'd rather award yo uas the winner.

Vijay!!! Life's not about winning. It's about trying and learning. Instead of wondering whether you are going to win over it or not, you could better get out there and give it another try. Try to understand yourself, analyze your situation, do the best you can. I believe it's better to try for a hundred times, rather than sit there and wonder, why you couldn't win.

All the best...

:-)

Answer 5

First of all it depends on your definition of win.Because you might have everything but just one thing less and your craving for that satisfaction might make you take a decission that you are still a loser.There are some people who want to leave everything in life behind that is-- lose everything and win truth;which is what they call winning in life. So dear friend ,first set out your limits atleast to yourself and than try.....;with hard work towards that goal; you'll succed one day.Best luck.

Answer 6

This is one of those questions, which only you can answer.

What do you want to win? Money, success, love, fame, happiness - these are just a few of the common goals, but I don't know what your goal or desires are - only you know.

However, I think to win in general, you must believe in yourself and work hard for what you want - you must have self-confidence and determination, perseverance.

When the going gets tough, the tough get going - so can you.

Good luck!

Answer 7

why not. just believe in urself & strive hard. Do u know what our president kalam says ;Dream,persevere& sweat and u will win. I think u should be confident &also someone above is looking at u &also waiting for u to win

Answer 8

winning is relative based on goals set in life,if the goal set is achievable u have won,set small steps as goal u will always win till the end

Answer 9

Yes, it just depends on how you look at things. The fact that you woke up this morning and could ask this question proves you won something important-life. Take it from there.....Have a great day!!!

Answer 10

Everyone can win. We all have the ability and potential to succeed but sometimes where we fail is in our attitude and belief.

So if you have a good attitude to commit yourself to the job in hand and the beleif in yourself to do it, you will always win.

Stay confident and positive.