I went out last night with my friends (they are boyfriend & girlfriend w 2 kids). Everything was as normal until we got back home. Now my friends have gone though some things he used to drug deal and be troublesome but he has left that behind. He was totally drunk when this happened btw.
He fled the taxi leaving me and his gf in the car, I didnt want to follow him in this so i asked her to get him to come back and pay with the money he had on him (i gave him 40 for it). He claimed to not have it, said it was lost so i was left dealing with this guy for payment methods (didnt have money on my card till later next week).
After dealing with that I went inside their house, I informed him of how i was pissed about him running on me like that, concidering everything I did for him. He didnt seem to care at the time, and made stupid jokes about it. We then sorta started arguing and he told me about how the misses didnt want me to come cause i was dopey or something & he stood up for me.
2007-05-12 20:36:26 · 6 answers · asked by ChAtMaN 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I wasnt so upset with her, i know how she is like, tends to look on the materialistic side of things and all girls talk behind your back, thats a given. I see it as a sort of ying yang situation, anyway. Then he started getting in her face and rough with her, I didnt know what to do, half of me was saying "its their relationship and this is how they work stuff out", the other half was saying "help her she needs it"
This went on for a bit, after a noise complaint from someone (not me) the police broke it up and they went to sleep.
Today I have been thinking about how to deal with it. I think i should sort the whole thing out with his misses myself, it shouldnt fall into his hands. The issue with the taxi im still not happy about, thats just not how friends should act. I dont know what to think, any suggestions from any onlookers
PS: Sorry about the long question :)
2007-05-12 20:41:38 · update #1
Your friend was drunk he may have just been talking sh** . Why don't you ask the misses if it is true.Tell her to be honest even if it hurts. If she says yes, then you'll know the truth. If she says no, then maybe your friend used that as an excuse; because he was drunk. He should pay you back for the taxi. An honest would not have left you hanging.
2007-05-12 20:45:49 · answer #1 · answered by cyran 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like this guy is a jerk for one and two why is he making excuses about what happened to the money? Did you ever find out where it went? It sounds like he started an argument with you to cover-up the fact that he didn't have the money for the taxi. You need to rethink this friendship. If you are the one that is always doing and never receiving... Is this really a friendship? As for the missus?? If she is saying that about you and he tells you that he stood up for you. It just makes me wonder if he is really a friend worth having. It sounds like there is alot more going on than you realize.
2007-05-12 20:52:47 · answer #2 · answered by angiee631 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm my great peers sure, however although I love the ladies I hang around with, I wouldn't entirely believe them. It sounds terrible however I realize for a undeniable fact that they repeatedly gossip approximately each and every different. Either approach is say I have a few peers who're both reasonable climate peers and a few who're like sisters to me.
2016-09-05 18:34:36 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
.He totally screwed you over and took your money then left you to deal with the cab then his girl was talking trash about you!Its obvious he still has a drug problem and it's hard to deal with people who are involved with drugs.They are very selfish people.If you really care about your friend and his family stick buy him and help him get through this,but I'm telling you right now it's going to be really hard.Let him know how you feel and hopefully you can get through to him just be careful and don't let yourself get screwed over by this guy again. good luck!
2007-05-12 20:52:40 · answer #4 · answered by lola 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure I totally understand the situation but they don't sound like very good friends.
2007-05-12 20:41:30 · answer #5 · answered by PK211 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shout to the north and the south
2007-05-12 20:41:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋