i have been this way since the first time 10 years ago. i am happily married in perfect health so i cant understand why i dont know what sex feel like.it has been like this with all three sex partners i get horny and wet but it still feels numb down there i know this cant be normal.do i need surgery or something
2007-05-12 19:59:48 · 14 answers · asked by monkey 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
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2007-05-12 20:02:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds as if you have some type of anorgasmia. You can do a search on it. There is a nice discussion of it in the Wikipedia.
This can be caused by a physical problem, depression, or be due to a side effect to a medication.
You need to see your gynecologist to find the cause and get an effective treatment for this.
2007-05-13 03:15:50 · answer #2 · answered by Smartassawhip 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've been checked out by your doc and there is nothing physically wrong with you. Then there are a few things to consider; 1 emotional stress, 2 sexual techniques, 3 your need to be properly stimulated during your sexual active. Perhaps you're one of those women who need a lot of oral stimulation in order to be satified, I've met a few. Look up sexual techniques and female orgasms online and you'll find suggestions for body positioning. Hopes this helps.
2007-05-13 11:45:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Generally, in some women, this sensation can be due to a circulation problem, where your not getting adequate blood flow. This is kind of like the reverse of a man being somewhat impotent, or having lack of sensation.
A non-prescription aid you can try is easy to obtain. It works, actually, for both men and women. The suppliment is called, "L-Arginine", and you can get it at any vitamin supply store, rather inexpensively. I have dealt with this problem in one of my relationships, and after trying this product, she regained quite a bit of sensation, and was able to "function" as she should.
I hope this works for you.
2007-05-13 03:04:48 · answer #4 · answered by C J 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe your partners are too small. Did you try to get a vibrator? You can have sex with your partner & use the vibrator on your clit or even inside you to heighten the sensation. Try that & see if it helps, if not, go to the doctor.
2007-05-13 15:11:26 · answer #5 · answered by ChoclettJapanimation 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check with your gynec. May be something wrong with your nerves in the vaginal area. It is not normal but dont worry, things will be alright. Since you get wet, there isnt anything wrong with your hormones.
Better go to your gynec fast.
2007-05-13 03:07:26 · answer #6 · answered by amembal4444 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your just like I was. Your too tence. I am now older,and I feel everything now. I just loosened up.I think your worried about your partners feelings to much. I don't want to sound mean, but forget them! Just concentrate on you! Life's way,to short .bye.
2007-05-13 03:30:00 · answer #7 · answered by Sandyspacecase 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its just normal for some girls... my lady is kinda that way except when we have sex she gets wet and all that but when penetration begins it hurts her....so. be gad that doesnt happen. talk to a doctor or try to get ur husband to try new things.
2007-05-13 03:03:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Consult a Doctor....
2007-05-13 03:02:38 · answer #9 · answered by reyver 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Very few women have orgasms for sex. It's myth. Do you orgasm from clitoral stimulation? That's the real female orgasm. The women who do climax from sex have their clitoris located closer to the vagina so they feel it during sex, but that's rare.
2007-05-13 03:04:23 · answer #10 · answered by ***HDK*** 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
you really need to seek your Dr. s advise on this one, don't trust any one on Y!A with your sex life, just ask the person who should know, the gyno...
2007-05-13 03:02:55 · answer #11 · answered by CBJ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋