What are some things that I can do to work on a severe self-esteem issue?

Answer 1

Hello sweet p. Know any athletics or games? Scouts, visit the elderly, hospital volunteers. Peer group advisor, politics!

Answer 2

Don't focus so much on yourself.

Look aroud at the outgoig kids and what is it about them that makes them sure about themself?

Go to a nice beauty shop and get a new hair cut or and new color.

See what the kids are wearing and try to be similuar. You can get some great things at Goodwill.

Note this............ we teach people how to treat us.
If you act shy and insecure, you will be treated that way,

Speak up in groups. Use a louder voice so you will be heard. If you can't think of something to say, then ask a questions so you are part of the conversation.

Learn to accept yourself as you are. And feel the good and beauty about yourself. Much of self esteem is how you project yourself.

Some of us are late bloomers. Please don't give up on yourself.

You need to change your inner dialog from you telling yourself negative stuff about your self, change it to positive things. even if you dont believe it. Look in the mirror and tell yourself you are beautiful.

It is possible for you to change your self esteem. If you have had famliy problems, tell your self that you can't define yourself forever by what you went through as a kid and teenage. You have a choice to pull out of whatever pain has made you feel low self esteem.

Answer 3

First thing in the morning when you are alone look in the mirror and tell yourself. "I am happy, I'm health and I feel terrific." Smile at yourself while saying it. Do it even though you don't feel it at first. It is amazing how it starts to change how you feel about yourself. It is a first step to being kinder to yourself. Put a message that scrolls slowly on your screen saver that is a positive affirmation to reinforce your own goodness. Read up on positive thinking. Try to stay away from negative people that drag you down or make fun of you. These are just a few ideas for you. I have had to overcome poor self esteem too. If it gets really bad you might have to see a counselor.

Answer 4

Sweetie ,you are beautiful just the way you are,but if you have a self esteem issue seek help and try to look at what your finer qualities are.every morning when you wake up look in the mirror and tell yourself howbeautiful smart and pretty you are the way you view yourself is the way other people view you,if you think you're ugly or fat so will everyone else.

Answer 5

Someone once told me that low self-esteem is from being too self conscious. People are self conscious because they love themself and are afraid of being ridiculed. So the best way to get more self-esteem is to stop caring about yourself as much, but also be confident. The prettiest person could have low self esteem. You just have to think about other people more and not be pessimistic. And talking to and helping other people make you feel good about yourself.

Answer 6

hi, try doing things that you like or excel most. Always smile at the mirror when you wake up and tell yourself you will have a wonderful day. Those pills are not the answers right away. Try developing a happy disposition and believe in what you can do.

Answer 7

Repeat your mantra two or three times a day, 10 at a time, "I am a strong and confident person. I love me and someday everyone will see what a fantastic person I truly am. The going may be rough, but I deserve happiness and I will achieve". Or something like that!

Answer 8

Discover your talents and flourish at them. And also use positive self talk. And also realize that there will always be someone uglier and in worse shape than you unless you're that person but that probably isn't you. So plain and simple, try different things til you find something you're good at and feel good about it.

Answer 9

Do something worthy of esteem.

Answer 10

Think positive all the time, keep your head up, don't doubt yourself, believe...