Ummm... the real question would be 'would I allow my husband/boyfriend to have say in naming my child'.
But yes, I think if you are with someone and they intend to be apart of the childs/your life then it should be something that is an equal say in name the child.
2007-05-12 08:22:29
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answered by Jeni 4
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I would not have a say in naming my children. But then again, neither would my husband. My children have their own names. They just have to tell me what they are.
Let me explain...
I do have a child out in the world that I have up for adoption when I was younger and could not take care of myself, let alone a new child. I knew my son from the beginning. I knew I was pregnant exactly a week after I conceived. Less than a month later, I knew it was a boy. Shortly after that, he told me his name. I can't really tell you how I knew, I just did. It was like he was speaking through me. Because of my experience, I know in my soul that if I was to ever become pregnant again, I'd have a similar experience as far as this is concerned.
2007-05-12 12:24:01
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answered by Erin 7
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What do you mean husband or boyfriend ALLOW..? It would be the other way around..If husband or boyfriend is lucky he would be allowed to help choose the childs name. Ultimately the mother chooses. It may sound sexist but she is bonding more than the father. Husbands and wives, mothers and fathers need to decide together.
2007-05-12 08:23:59
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answered by Anonymous
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Yes I picked out the middle name for both of my children. I had a vote in the name of my daughter and I came up with the spelling.
2007-05-12 11:17:22
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answered by wicked wench 3
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We have chosen the names of our five children together. After being with me during pregnancies, labor etc, he'd never be so inconsiderate as to give our children names I didn't like. It's not been hard to find names we both liked.
2007-05-12 08:42:27
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answered by Kaz 2
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I had the children of course I got the most say on what I named them.
2007-05-12 08:26:44
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answered by ldg 5
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I wouldn't even ask, sweetheart, I know that the husband is the leader of the household and he should be the one to name the children.
Of course, sometimes, the woman is allowed to suggest names for their daughter.
And the woman shouldn't be having children if she's not married, sir, also it wouldn't be the woman's child, it would be her husbands.
Am I right sweetie?
XOXO
2007-05-12 09:20:48
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answered by Anonymous
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yes definitly! If you, or your wife is going through pregnancy, choosing the name together is definitly one of the top things you should do. If you disagree on names, dont turn it into an argument. Respect eachothers ideas and you'll find one perfect for you both and the baby! Good luck with your baby! x
2007-05-12 08:22:09
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answered by Anonymous
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YES!!! It is in a women for 9 months and you are thinking that she does not deserve to help pick a name!!?? That would just be rude and inconsiderate. This is something that should be disucssed before the situation comes about.
2007-05-12 08:22:23
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answered by NewlyMarried&LovingIt 3
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Yes. I've already picked out all the names of our would be children. Alyssa, Arianna, Elena, Elias, and Caleb. I want to have three girls and two boys (obviously).
2007-05-12 20:12:57
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answered by Anonymous
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Well he had better. After all, if I had carried a child for 9 months and then had to go thru the labor pains I had better get to pick out a name!
2007-05-12 08:21:43
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answered by kritter0101 2
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