with at night or anytime? the reason i ask is bc his ex-wife had the same problem and thinks it is disrespectful. am i crazy for thinking its is wrong as well? Come one, he is 34 years old and i am 27. help, thanks
2007-05-12 08:11:23 · 10 answers · asked by kristen m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He can't control if his old friends decide to text message him when they're drunk. All he can control is if he responds or encourages it. As long as he's not doing that, you have no right to be angry with him about it.
2007-05-12 08:14:56 · answer #1 · answered by UNITool 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 27 Kristen, you've had a sheltered exsistence, if you don't realize he is doing more than you. He is a train wreck and will be nothing but a heart/ache for you and your child. Realize you've made a baby with a bum and now how do you go forth? With a realistic plan for your life I hope. Decide now not later cause these are precious years to waste sitting home while hes having fun with others. You really need help, and prayer is needed here.
2007-05-12 08:26:58 · answer #2 · answered by kim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is disrespectful. He needs to decide if he wants to be player guy or family guy. Can't have it both ways. If he wants to be family guy and have a life with you then he needs to sever the relationship with those girls. Don't let him tell you he can't stop them from texting him. They wouldn't be if he didn't lead them to believe that he likes it. Take a stand and be firm! You go girl!
2007-05-12 08:21:43 · answer #3 · answered by Erin C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello My Dear, I am a retired pensioner and live in Australia. I am interested in your case and think it is not so much that he is getting these messages but he is opening and reading them. If he is really in love with you, he will change his mobile number so he no longer will get these messages. Ask him to do this and his answer will also give you the answer. Good Luck and Best Wishes - Grandpa
2007-05-12 08:21:39 · answer #4 · answered by Peter F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he can't control other people but it's how he handles the text's. If he writes back, than that's wrong, he's causing a continuation to the situation but if he doesn't than just be happy that he's so popular but he chooses to be with you.
2007-05-12 08:18:31 · answer #5 · answered by buffaloblkguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not right, but what can you do about it? I don't think text messages can be blocked.
All you can do is just laugh about how sad these girls are who are texting your guy.
2007-05-12 08:15:10 · answer #6 · answered by Abby O'Normal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him like he is--------A Player,,,,,,,Move on cause he will not change.
How rude for a man of his age to be so disrespectful. Good Luck
2007-05-12 08:19:31 · answer #7 · answered by iambettyboop 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not if you don't believe it is right. Would he let your old friends text you like that?
2007-05-12 08:14:10 · answer #8 · answered by primamaria04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no he should not be doing this... if he respects u he wouldnt be doin it.. ask how he would feel if u were doing the same thing... be strong woman stand up to him and give him a altamatum
2007-05-12 08:14:30 · answer #9 · answered by :..WIzDOM..: 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is very disrespectful. No wonder his ex-wife dumped him...Is this what you want raising your kid?
2007-05-12 08:14:33 · answer #10 · answered by la buena bruja 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋