I used to feel that way, but as I get older, I realize that I can't try so hard to please people, because no matter what you do, people are never truly satisfied; they always look at you and find SOMETHING to complain about, so there's no need to drive yourself crazy worrying about pleasing them. I try to please God and myself, that's it. And I always keep in mind that people had something negative to say about Jesus, and he was perfect; so you KNOW what they'll say about us!!!
2007-05-12 08:12:08
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answered by Anonymous
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I think that if you work to not let others down, your not doing much for yourself and your making yourself tired for someone else, however, after helping that person you feel great, so it is worth it.
2007-05-12 08:11:42
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answer #2
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answered by NaturesPixie 3
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2017-01-09 17:45:20
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answered by Anonymous
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Yes.....you have to love yourself and make yourself happy while incorporating others needs in order to be happy and not let anyone down - including yourself - in life.....Good Q!
2007-05-12 08:13:35
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answered by Incognito 6
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The problem with working for others is they're never happy. I say hang them with a new rope and make yourself happy.
2007-05-12 08:14:49
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answered by gaelic_girl 3
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I think if it is too much, then the answer is yes, but in general the best way to feel good about myself is to give to others.
2007-05-12 08:13:22
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answered by the Boss 7
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Very much yes. One of these days, I'm going on vacation; but I'm going to drop by work on occasion to see the mess I won't have to clean up!
2007-05-12 09:07:27
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answered by knight2001us 6
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Yea I agree, I used to do that and it hurt me in alot of ways. best thing is to worry about YOU and not care too much what people think. I learned the HARD WAY
2007-05-12 08:11:56
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answered by Anonymous
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No, if i am working to not let someone down, and I am successful, then I am meeting my goals and not letting myself down.
2007-05-12 15:43:38
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answered by MT C 6
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Yes in some ways I do.... we are concentrating so hard, and focusing on the other person, and their feelings. We forget to bring ourselves up.... in some ways it does happen.
2007-05-12 08:22:49
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answered by Anonymous
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