she has never made the effort in the past and now my daughter is 13yrs. Should I let her?
2007-05-12 07:58:48 · 15 answers · asked by loving U 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i don't see why she should even want to have anything to do with ya, were you two close? She must be using her as an excuse to come see you. Just watch out for yourself, and your daughter, OK?
2007-05-12 14:58:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
How does your daughter feel about it? This plays a big part and is your ex sister in law, your daughters aunt, is she a responsible person? I mean if she is not a risk to your daughter and your daughter wants to then why not. Just set your boundary before she takes her. Let her know what time you want her back and ask where is she taking her. And stick to it. :)
2007-05-12 15:16:48 · answer #2 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your daughter hasn't been around her for awhile. Why not slowly build a relationship between them like a movie, bowling, etc. Let the chemistry build before letting her go off to what has to be an awkward situation.
2007-05-12 08:14:34 · answer #3 · answered by aprayer4u2004 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know....we don't know her...how long has it been? Maybe talk to ex sister in law first about it...why all of a sudden? what's her intentions? Is this a one time thing or is she wanting to become part of your daughters life? When you have those answers think about how you feel about it...then maybe talk to your daughter and see how she feels about it...she's 13 and as long as she's not in any danger by seeing her Aunt then give her choice...she's old enough to help make decisions....
2007-05-12 08:06:29 · answer #4 · answered by grdnangel0209 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
of course NO.. where was she these last 13 years. now that ur kid has turn into smeone quite responsibl, she wants to take her away.
get to know her real intentions first if you want to let her take your daughter.
2007-05-12 08:12:43 · answer #5 · answered by DarshaN 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you trust her yes ask her where she is gonna take her and when she is bringing her home, make sure she isn't doing it because she is in need of a babysiter.
2007-05-12 08:04:04 · answer #6 · answered by Mary O 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Is she still your freind?Does your daughter like her?if yes4 both then yes.if no 4 both no.If yes and no or no and yes let her decide.
2007-05-12 09:09:46 · answer #7 · answered by Electronic Geek 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No...Be careful...If she hasn't bothered before, ask yourself why is she now...How do you know she isn't plotting something with the ex?...i.e. taking the daughter from you...
2007-05-12 08:06:30 · answer #8 · answered by Terry C. 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Since she hasn't been in contact with either of you for awhile I'd make it something you could all do together.
2007-05-12 08:40:36 · answer #9 · answered by V 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
no because you never know whats gonna happen for my opinion as a parent my self
2007-05-12 15:59:04 · answer #10 · answered by Charger Warrior 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋