hes someone i knew years ago, online. we bumped into each other in his town all those years ago, since then hes had a kid, and does well for himself...anyway...
we bumped into each other recently at a club...i was looking great, and he managed to find me online again and posted me his number...
weeks passed, and he said he wanted to see me, we set a date...the night b4 the date he texted me his 2nd num, i texed back and that was that...the day of the date...NOTHING! completely stood me up...
so now he knows i've met a great guy, and said he wants to see me while i'm still single...we set a date for tonight...in my head, standing me up was VERYY bad ...but i have a feeling hes going to do it again, (havent heard from him today)...hes coming to pick me up from my house @ 8pm 2nite..so if he stands me up again,i wont be answering his calls, and most likely not speak to him again.is this good?
what would u do?
why is he doing this ( has a chick on the side maybe?)
thankkss
2007-05-12 07:48:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
haha well he phoned 45 mins later...said he said 8-9 not 7-8...i said to him he sed 7-8 as i save all convos...
pressure! i'm goin out haha
thanks
2007-05-12 09:02:50 · update #1
at the end of the day he stood me up once with no excuse or call....
then yes i've met a great guy..a DATE not a boyfriend...nothing wrong with dating i'm not sleeping with anyone...why would i marry the first great guy i meet...lol i want a choice not just anyone who shows interest in me..and the man imarry wont be taking me for granted by standing me up..HE MIGHT STAND ME UP AT THE ALTER LOL
different strokes for different folks, if the guy doesnt remember what time hes meant to pick me up, and doesnt even seem bothered ...well maybe i'm weeding out the crap...the other "GREAT GUY" keeps up appearances and is heading towards being a boyfriend material. so i'm wedding out the crap, sorry if it offends you. i have no doubt this guy will try one more time, and will probabley do better this time...i'm teaching him a lesson in punctuality
2007-05-12 09:27:07 · update #2
You seem to be faulting this guy. Why? You seem to think he's being impolite and inconsiderate and it's very likely he isn't behaving correctly. But, why should he bother behaving? You tell us that you've met a "great guy", and in the same sentence say you've made a date with a different guy for tonight. This prince has even said he wants to see you while you're still single- and YOU agreed to go out with him. Planning to sample one last guy before you marry your great guy? Heck, perhaps you could have a quicky before you head for the church on your wedding day. Lady, you aren't ready for a "great guy" and you aren't ready to marry this, or any other guy. Stay single until you mature enough to realize that your actions impact other people.
2007-05-12 09:14:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sorry but it's really possible that he has a girl on the side, especially if he's always texting you. That's a BIG sign .He sounds like a loser and he just wants to f--k with your head and something else too! Go out tonight and go to the club! N ot worth your time girl!
2007-05-12 07:54:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he sounds like the player type. If I were u I'd see what he dose first.If he stands u up again, I'd follow the advice someone gave me once: Never go to bed angry and upset stay up and plott revenge. Maybe u could say that u will pick him up and dich him or better yet, embaress him. Guys hate that!!!!
2007-05-12 07:57:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
confident he contraptions a date with you merely in case, then if something else extra advantageous (extra advantageous in his innovations) turns into attainable, he stands you up. overlook approximately him, he's taking you with no attention.
2017-01-09 17:44:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, Let it go, sounds like a jerk ! Not worth wasting your time on. You need a gentlemen.
2007-05-12 07:59:41 · answer #5 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fool me once, shame on you
Fool me twice, shame on me
2007-05-12 07:51:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋