2007-05-12 05:38:05 · 13 answers · asked by niki_luvs_josh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It is not Easy .. God bless you ..
But don't worry .. Thank god we have the gift of forgetting mind ..
Just in sometime you will forget everything about it .. and you will go on with your life .. and may be you will do the same fault again without remembering the past ..
yet .. the life will show you how pretty it is .. and how you still have mush happiness waiting for you ..
Believe me you will forget it .. without even knowing that you did .. and now the best thing to do .. is trying to keep yourself busy and your mind ..
Go out , join your friends on parties , or help some family members on something they asked ur help or waiting for you to complete .. you will gain at the same time .. the appreciation and love and esteem from those whom deserve it ..
Have a great day ..
Enjoy your life . it is waiting for you ..
Good luck ..
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2007-05-12 05:58:41 · answer #1 · answered by valentino's 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Of course its not going to be easy, especially when if its someone you love, you might wonder why they hurt you if they truly do love you, but ultimately, it depends on how they hurt you, only you can really make the decision to forgive them or not, and you've got to make that decision with your own heart, do whatever YOU think is right, If you cant decide what to do, give it some time, something will eventually happen to help you decide what to do, don't be afraid to confront that person about how you feel, ask them why you should forgive them when they hurt you, you may find something out that will help you make your decision whether you forgive them or not.
2007-05-12 05:47:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would only forgive anyone who deliberately hurt me if they did this for me. I deserve to be treated with respect and that is the only people that I surround myself with. If the person is really sorry about hurting me then they will show that by not trying to get close to me again. Having to make me be the one who has to be the better one. I will only forgive them if I never see them.
2007-05-12 05:45:53 · answer #3 · answered by orcarius 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how bad you were hurt. Many people are overly sensitive and get hurt over things that are not really a big deal. I'm not saying that is your case, just that it's true. There are somethings that shouldn't be forgiven, like cheating. However most others really can be gotten over quickly.
2007-05-12 05:45:26 · answer #4 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it isnt easy but if the person is willing to apoligize and you accept ..... nobody likes being mean even if they act like they do just try your best to forgive and forget what this person has done to you
2007-05-12 05:41:29 · answer #5 · answered by Trust Me h!3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not easy at times. But that is where hard work and love prevails.
2007-05-12 05:40:27 · answer #6 · answered by sdo3lg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is. Just rise above the situation. Never hold hatred in your heart. Just let it go and move on.
2007-05-12 05:41:26 · answer #7 · answered by M.A.T. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No .. not that easy .. well it really depends what they did ... if u told me that i would tell you everything
2007-05-12 05:41:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends.me i can after the hurt subsides then then you heal
2007-05-12 05:42:38 · answer #9 · answered by angelic_seduction 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it might take a lifetime..
2007-05-12 05:41:29 · answer #10 · answered by Ava 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋