Hi!!
Is their any point in feeling that you are a big loser compared to others?Like I've got to complete lots os things and some of my friends have completed everything.I always try my best but it so happens that every time I end up with another group of friends dong things at the 11 th hour?Is it becoz I'm no better than the other punctual people?Or what can I actually do to make it better next time?
2007-05-12 03:58:06 · 4 answers · asked by motorockr:luv the thump 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you find yourself to be inferior when you compare yourself with people..just get on with the fact that everybody is different..your friends might be punctual...you might be better than them in somethign else..there will be something..
compare yourself only if it leads to healthy competition wherein you work hard to improve yourself..
if comparison makes you feel inferior, then stop comparing totally...how can you compare yourself with others who have different parents, family background, customs, basic nature, dressing sense, homes, schools etc...
if you wanna compare yourself, do it with somebody who has absolutely the same background as you...and its really hard to find some1 like that..so i would suggest you give up comparing yourself like this and feelign inferior..
there is absolutely no point in feeling inferior...ok, mayb you aren't as punctual as they are, it doesnt mean you are bad..you are just a little different and better than them in something else..
2007-05-12 04:10:25 · answer #1 · answered by geezoinks 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
1> Stop comparing. Looking at yourself with a critics eye is good, but not to the level that you develop an inferiority complex. Use that self critcism to develop yourself and discipline yourself.
2> You land up with another group of frinds because you choose to land up with them. Secondly, that implies that you might be depending on others somehow, for your stuff. Stop relying on others. Success is most the times about 'do it yourself' attitude.
I hope that would help.
All the best...
:-)
2007-05-12 16:09:44 · answer #2 · answered by plato's ghost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People are all different and everyone is good at something. And because of this, its normal that some people have to work harder for certain things. Dont feel inferior to anyone because they can do something better. instead, find what you're good at, find what you love to do. You'll find yourself there and be happy and content with the way you are.
2007-05-12 11:04:01 · answer #3 · answered by mo17ix 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
differences are what makes us Unique!!!
don't give up and be live that you are special in some thing you might have not found yet.
2007-05-12 11:06:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋