I'm a goth,13 and nearly all the biys (and a few girls) tease me about it!what gets me most is that they assume that they know everything about me because of how i choose to live!they say i slit my wrists and stupid stuff like that!i just want a few come backs to get them off my back and a lil advice
2007-05-12 01:07:30 · 8 answers · asked by VIOLET 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
First of all they attack what they don't know or what scares them they are insecure about themselves to make fun of you. About being Goth- I had to look up what "Goth" was. sorry.Why do you like Goth? What draws you to it?I am curious.
2007-05-17 12:03:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweet heart the more u show to them that u get upset by what those morons are saying or doing, the more u will give them the fuel to torch-er you.
do this sweetie totally ignore them, yet try to find a human at list i think there should be one there.
and if there are none, then do the thing that will burn them the most your GRADES be the best est in school as far as academy and other school category goes.
I know it is very hard, all u can do is just hang in there. My daughter was like that so from 9th grade
i took her out of high school and put her in charter schools. she was very happy her grades where all A's and guss what now she is in 2ND year collage.
If your parents can find charter schools around your home try over there, it is public school government funded.
good luck dear
2007-05-16 22:02:20 · answer #2 · answered by not fair 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lighten up you are 13 try to be more friendly and not dressing quite so different. I dress to be comfortable and so that I can work . I work in a small business doing paper work and repairs on houses and shops and try to fit in some gardening. Time is too precious to spend too much of it on appearance. Think of the type of work you would like to get involved with. It means generally that you have to fit in and not be too way out. So think on your future and try for a more natural look so that you do fit in and will find good employment in the future. Perhaps keep the special look for appropriate occasions. But whatever the comments remain cheerful and be polite exceedingly so. Revenge they say is a dish best served cold so answer these people in a friendly and polite manner. You could even feel a little sorry for them as they obviously do not have the freedom that you do.
2007-05-12 08:34:19 · answer #3 · answered by njss 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
People only know about us what we choose to advertise. If you are going to present yourself that way, you have to be willing to live with the assumptions even if it is not fair. If I put on a Dallas Cowboys t-shirt people will assume that I really like them and enjoy watching them play. By the way, ignore the teasers . They are just trying to cope with their fears.
2007-05-17 15:48:30 · answer #4 · answered by TAT 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, im 17...and im kind of preppy..
but i really like goths and have many friends that are! and they tease me cuz im preppy! but u know what? i dont give a f**k~~
because i like what i see, and i feel good when i wear pink or purple (i dont always)!!
at one point though i felt 'out' so i began dressing Goth style..
everyone told me it suits me..and my personality..
but before i knew it i was wearing pink again..
it just didint last because it wasnt me..
i think u should just be who u are..
and wear what u like..
and 4get the ones tha make fun of u..
"those who mind don't matter, and those that matter dont mind"...-its true-
*and not only goths cut their wrists..preps do too...
2007-05-12 08:31:21 · answer #5 · answered by meat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres nothing wrong w/ being different, as long as your a good person and not hurting yourself and anyone. others are afraid or ignorant to what they dont know or not used to, so often times they tease them or make fun of them because its easier that way for them, instead of taking the time to get to know them.
being different is a good thing, it adds character and it makes you special in a good way.
be who you are as long as you have a good heart.
2007-05-12 08:15:53 · answer #6 · answered by mlco 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do not allow others gossips or remarks upset your passage of growth. It is the love of oneself and the every desire to better oneself through personal growth that you shall be a better and well-rounded individual.
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2007-05-12 08:14:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know how you're feeling, I'm the only one in my school that dresses in all black.
You could start spreading roumors about them, write on the bathroom walls that they have chlamydia so that no one will sleep with them, and you could carve up their bike tyres with a knife.
When it comes to those boring, normal kids, revenge is the only answer.
2007-05-12 08:13:51 · answer #8 · answered by eradicate 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋