has anybody been pregnant under 15?

Question

if anybody has been pregnant at a young age did you get funny looks and people talking about you ? if so then what did they say about you?

Answer 1

i didn't have kids that young but i looked that young which means that people treated me like i was that young. i had my first child at 19.5 years old and i looked 14. i had women say "he's not yours is he?" , "babies having babies" , "another one wasting my tax dollars" and " oh my god how old are you?". funny thing is I'm 28 now and i still get those comments every now and than but i try to come up with witty come-backs for the nosy.

FYI it doesn't matter what you do people will talk especially if they're insecure, misery loves company just don't be their company. at the same time i don't encourage a teenager to get pregnant but if she does then we as adult or just decent human beings should try to be kind and/or compassionate to her 'cause it's a scary thing to be that young and pregnant.

Answer 2

Oh boy Oh boy oh boy. Babies having Babies. Now, who cares what people say or how they look at you, the question is: what in the world were you doing having sex at such a young age and specially unprotected? Not that I'm a prude, (My mother was married at the age of 13 and I'm the youngest of 7 children), but times had changed and circumstances for young parents have worsened. What are you plans for the future that's what should worried you, not the gossip, stupidity and shallowness of people.

Answer 3

i had my first at 18 and i got the stares, the glares and the looks of pity from all types, people my age upto old ladies. i don't know what they said about me, probably that i was a little whoare out for a free ride, but i was actually at uni fulltime doing a dual degree, and i lived with my boyfriend who is the father of my children - BOTH of them. and let me throw in that because of my partners income i get less that $20 a week from the government. realistically, i can't manage 2 kids and fulltime uni with the grades that i know i can achieve so next year i am going back part-time. when i had my second at 21, 7weeks ago, i copped it all over again. when will people learn that they can't judge a book by it's cover?

Answer 4

My mom was pregnant w/ me at age 15 i was born when she was 16 she still finished school and she is now going back to collage even though she is 28 i am 13 now and my little sister is turning 8 this year.

Answer 5

I got pregnant to my long time bf at 17 1/2 years. I didn't see anyone look down at me as my family, particularly my mother rallied around me. My mother and fiance kept close and shielded me from people like that. so i didn't notice, in fact i loved my pregnancy because of the support i got.
My son is now 18 years old and studying law and commerce. I'm so proud of him and thank god i had him when i did because now i have this awesome guy called my son.
I got married to my son's father at 18 years, my son was nearly 1 when we got married.
Who gives a bats bum what people say anyway! It's none of their business!.
Hold your head high and walk tall. Why, because your fabulous!

Answer 6

My mother was married at the age of 12 in 1930 and delivered her first child in 1931.She became mother at the age of 13. I was the last child she delivered at her 26th year.

Answer 7

I cannot be pregnant. At 15 I didn't even make somebody pregnant. It is not fun for a girl being pregnant at 15. If so, the neighbours will astonish instead of funnily gossiping.

Answer 8

im 22 and im 27 weeks pregnant and i get funny looks and people shaking their head at me. it worse when i take my 1 year old niece out, people assume she is mine and see me pregnant and whisper. ive learned to ignore it though. people dont know a thing just by looking at you. imin college full time, my boyfriend who i live with works over 55 hours a week.

Answer 9

honey...i've read your other question about pregnancy....all i can say its that ure in BIG trouble if ure under 15....go at a ginecologist and ..i suggest...well ...an avort...it will be a drama 4 u...but to give birth to a baby ...it would be bad 4 u and 4 the baby....i'm not sure what to advise u...except of going to the doctor...its the only way to be sure....

Answer 10

What do you expect people to say? Congratulations? Sorry to be the bearer of bad news but if its nasty looks that are hurting you now, wait til you go into labour.