Is he selfish? I asked him why he didn't do it to me. He says he didn't like to. Are young guys that way? By the way, I am not seeing him anymore. It didn't work out.
2007-05-11 17:45:34 · 12 answers · asked by LAgirl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He might not have been selfish, he might actually not like it. Some women don't like to do it, so why can't some men be that way. The only thing that is important is whether or not you are happy with a guy like that. Seems that you are not, good for you to end it early.
Ironic thing is you will sometimes get a girl who says she doesn't want to give oral but her boyfriend is upset. All the other girls tell her he is being selfish. However a guy does the same thing and he is still selfish...don't you see the irony?
2007-05-11 17:55:44 · answer #1 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wonder why it did not work out. Yes it is a double standard to want to receive but not give.
When it comes to any sexual favor one should not ask for what one is not willing to give in relative compensation. Best case scenario it should be an equal energy exchange.
Some guys are also hypocrites when it comes to threesomes. They want an extra woman but not an extra man.
I'm sure woman are also hypocrites too in their own scenarios. But the essence of my statements are that all things should be comparably equal in a relationship.
2007-05-12 00:53:29 · answer #2 · answered by Love of Truth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a tough one, but there are other ways to be pleased without the man having to give you oral sex. Try toys, or see if hes into things that would make it easier for him to do that for you, like ut his favorite fruit one you that way he tastes that, or try gettg gels that taste good, or body paint that has different flavore. If he is not into that then he can please you other ways i am sure, lol. Good luck.
2007-05-12 00:51:24 · answer #3 · answered by Lacey M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is selfish. But, not many guys are that way. You just happened to find one in a minority.
2007-05-12 00:49:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is selfish, probably. Not all young guys would be that way.
2007-05-12 00:49:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes he's selfish, no guys (young or old) aren't like that. I would never be in a relationship like that!
2007-05-12 00:49:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may have the following fears.
He does not know what to do.
He thinks its dirty.
or both.
next relationship maybe sugguest 69 after you both shower or been swimming. Also, you may need to teach him, tell him what makes you feel good and etc.
Best of luck in life.
2007-05-12 00:52:46 · answer #7 · answered by oldcorps1947 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOL!! Well...you gals are more difficult to maneuver around than us males. We are out there for all the world to see while you gals are more internal (physically speaking..that is).
Some males may find that intimidating..even if they never admit to it.....
but for what it is worth.....I would never ask you to do something I ain't willing to do myself...... ;-)
2007-05-12 00:52:06 · answer #8 · answered by Chief Paduke 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he should return the favor, plenty of guys out there who will, right guys?.
2007-05-12 01:03:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you. I hope you find a guy who can't wait to taste you for hours every day.
2007-05-12 00:56:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋