Christians I pray to God to bring a female friend into my life, do you think this is what God wants me to do?

Question

I seem to always find the wrong ones on my own. Thank you for your advice

Answer 1

Aw...I hear you. I pray also that God bring you just the right gal. It is always wise to seek Him, in all things. God bless you!

Answer 2

Only if you're male . . .

Prov 18:22 says that "Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the LORD." KJV

Definitely pray for the woman that God will bring into your life in His time.

In the meantime, ask God to prepare you to be a faithful and loving husband so when she does come along, you can hit the bricks running.

Answer 3

You are asking God for help in finding a female friend? How about you stop looking for God to solve all your problems and solve them yourself? Don't be lazy. If you are meeting the wrong ladies, then change your ways. Change your look. Read self help books. Do something. Stop bothering God with your silly request. He is very busy right now with real problems like the nasty weather we are having, the war that is going on. ect.

Answer 4

Nobody can speak for God, but if you are an adult male, it's only natural to seek companionship of females. Since you have had bad experiences, you should be able to use that to avoid future mistakes.

Answer 5

No it is not wrong. God will give you the desires of your heart if you delight in him!

Edit- Dont forget to pray for you wife everyday. She needs your prayer even now!

Answer 6

If you believe God tels you personally to multiply then do so, however make sure you have enough money coming in to support the family for 25 years, otherwise your asking for trouble.

Answer 7

You should seek His counsel in all things.
Proverbs 3:5-7
5 Trust in the LORD with all your heart,
And lean not on your own understanding;
6 In all your ways acknowledge Him,
And He shall direct[a] your paths.
7 Do not be wise in your own eyes;
Fear the LORD and depart from evil.

Answer 8

Pray that you have a great relationship with God and he will provide you with a mate.

Answer 9

if u r still a virgin, then u might find something in this, if not try to stay celibate. If u can not control your self get a wife and get married.


cant tell if this is for me only. Cuss when I seek God about this I get a negative feeling go through me, when I say for everyone. But I don't get this feeling when I say for me only, that is a wife in heaven.

The lord our God says there is no marriages in heaven... 1 Corinthians 7: 5, 9-11, 28, 31-34( you should read the whole chapter). To sum it up they r not to desire the flesh of THIS WORLD. But there is a way for a virgin to marry without lust. the father says SEEK YE FIRST THE KINGDOM OF GOD(for a wife) and all his righteousness. Everyone is in a spirit not of Gods that causes you to be attracted to one another, called lust. This evil spirit u walk in, so do I so far, lets u be attractive to the opposite sex. Whats wrong with that u say, The devil shows u the wisdom what u call is beautiful, or handsome and put it on many. God is a holy God, and would not create sexual wisdom and put it on many people. It says U must be married in order for God to bless it, that is just a cover up God gave and excepted Lust. Romans 3:10-18 says we go our own way, and that brings missery and distruction. Genesis 6: 1-3 talks about everyone picking there own wifes, so God has not provided anyone with a wife. Not even adam and eve. For God said who told u u were naked. We stole the Body from God. Proverbs (the book of wisdom) 30:18-19 says we do not understand how to love a woman. But the devil will deceive many or all and u will get married, or not get married and lose your sole. For you will lose your soul cause of your love for one another if u r not married. And he will take your wife away from u, if not this world(devorice) he will in heaven. God has another way. Seek his face for a lover not of the flesh, not of this world, but of the spirit. It can only be done though faith. This wisdom is given to u by virgin seeking Gods face for many many yrs on it. Listen to what the world says about being a virgin, the devil is getting everyone to lose it quickly, he is taking something from u, a treasure, a hidden tresure. or he will say get married quickly cuss u probovly can't control yourselfs. But u will call me crazy, for u r blind and I cannot seem to make anyone see.

if u r married, u gave yourself to flesh. Wich is the body. Apostale paul spoke about being a virgion unto God. He beleaved walking close to God could only be done without a woman. I say Only with a woman can a person truely walk close to God. If we all followed Apostle Paul, if we all loved God as much as he did, and wanted to get close to God, and no one married. The world would die. But to desire the flesh is evil....as per Genesis 6:1-3. Even God could not stay with us, cuse we r Flesh or the product of flesh that's in verse 3. God is not part of anyone relationship in verse 2. No one is aloud in heaven with there mates. U r all seperated. That is the reason why I searched for why God threw out marriages in heaven. For his will is suppose to be done on earth as it is in heaven. Why r there no marriages in heaven? Cuss all go our own way, Romans 3:10-18 says this. We think we know what love is, when love is suppose to be our highest goal. But no one looks to heaven. Seek ye first the kingdom of God and all his rightousness.

For those that chose this world, the flesh 1 Cor 7:29 but this I say, brethren, the time is short:it remaineth, that both they that have wives be as though they had none
If u understand lust and won your wife as a hidden tresure, for it says for her husband shall be found in the gates, where he siteth among the elders of the land( for her husband is very very wise).....Proverbs 31:23 the chapter about a virtues woman.....need KJV....

Answer 10

Here is how I think prayers are suppose to be. You do not ask God for something to come to you....you ask God for guidance and wisdom for yourself to find what you need.