is already married and is asking you to commit (=marriage) to her before she divorces her husband and you knew that you could never in your life find such a woman again but you have never spend even a weekend with her because she always had to run home after your secret 'dates' after work.
2007-05-11 16:29:49 · 14 answers · asked by tenno1234 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Add to that: Her current husband is nice, but a loser who could not find a woman again if she leaves him.
2007-05-11 16:30:44 · update #1
No...don't commit! Married is the key word! She may panic and back out of this. She may move to you and put you in the same situation as this husband. In a few years you could be the nice loser. She doesn't respect you, him or herself. This is not the type of woman you want to marry. At one point she felt the way she says she feels about you for her husband. What will happen when you become her husband and some other man becomes you?
2007-05-11 16:36:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's leaving her husband for YOU?? How do you know she won't do the same to you? And, you say you'll never meet anyone like her again. Idiot. There are thousands of women like her. Stay away from a married woman because affairs rarely end up in successful marriages. VERY rarely.
2007-05-11 23:35:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she cheats on her current husband, whom she took a vow with, what makes u think she will never cheat on you. How could u ever even trust her when she has already shown u how untrustworthy she is. End it now & move on brother. Do not play the fool. There are far better women out there for you to have a relationship with.
2007-05-11 23:40:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's tricky but it's up to you. Do you really love her? Mabye you could just commit to an engagement with a wedding date that is not set? Divorce does take time and in most states you have to wait 6 months before you can remarry anyway. I do think you should take your time with it though and make real sure that your marriage wont end up like hers.
2007-05-11 23:35:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No unless she was divorced and even then its not a for sure commitment because i could be her next divorce, she obviously isn't steady in her life and doesn't take marriage seriously.
2007-05-11 23:35:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is married, how would you feel if your wife was cheating on you? Better yet knowing her history yourself could you trust her not to do the same thing to you?
-NmD!
2007-05-11 23:36:39 · answer #6 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you KNOW you cant commit to her, then let her go... she will not be happy unless she is married, let her stay with her loser husband
2007-05-11 23:33:03 · answer #7 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutly not once a cheat always a cheat says my boyfriend.
2007-05-11 23:33:38 · answer #8 · answered by 29LICKS & MR.29LICKS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know someone who was married the next day, so don't give up hope!!
2007-05-12 00:23:46 · answer #9 · answered by goodness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I would quit the relationship. It is bound to hurt everyone involved.
2007-05-11 23:35:48 · answer #10 · answered by Jim San Antonio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋