ok so I have a major crush on this guy in my band class. He's sweet, funny, cute, and smart. I asked my friend to ask him if he knows me. He said ya. It ended up with him knowing I like him and I'm quite ok with that but at a dance a couple weeks ago my friends brought him up to me to meet. I didn't say anything much besides "hi" because I was mad at my friends because they held my arms and legs so I was acting kinda weird and he heard me say weird things about him and i when iwas talking ot my friend. I have know clue if he's still interested I didn't want to hert his feelings and IK wanna talk to him what should I DO!!!
2007-05-11 10:19:06 · 6 answers · asked by Megan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well I wanna talk to him and tell him what happend but I want to talk to and be casual without looking like a deparate freak!
2007-05-11 10:29:24 · update #1
when you see him in the hall give him the look, and if he looks at you, smile like a little sexy devil. after a while be like hey...not hi. i'd end up trying to be firends with him first. find things he likes, lke if you lik eht same music there you have something to talk about, trade playlists, you gotta call him when you want it back...:]
good luck!!
2007-05-11 10:23:08 · answer #1 · answered by lola 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, that depends on what grade you are in. Since you mentioned band, I'm going to assume you are in High School. If you really like him, I say go for it and ask. If you don't ask, you will never know and years later, you will only wonder "what if" (speaking from experience). Sure you will be hurt if he says no, but that's okay. No matter what, we all (and yes that includes boys) get our heart broken at one point or another. Trust me when I say, after a few days (maybe a few weeks) your heart will heal and years later you will have something to laugh about. Now, let's say he says "yes." Well then you will hopefully have a wonderful "safe" time.
Always remember what came from the mouth of a little girl, "No boy is worth crying over, and the one who is will never make you cry." :) Good luck to you and remember to stay in school and always, ALWAYS, make YOUR education your prioritiy in life.
2007-05-11 17:35:29 · answer #2 · answered by Mili 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over it. Its hard, but just do it...otherwise you will never know.
If he came over to meet you then he was interested, but
you have to remember that your actions may have caused him to think that you aren't interested in him.
Find every opportunity that you can to say Hi. Walk up to him on Monday and say hi....did you have a nice weekend??
That is an opening for conversation. If he has a short answer then just say cool.......see ya...and walk away, but dont give up. Dont do it everyday and dont always do it on Mondays, but dont give up. You have to casually let him know you are interested and whatever you do.....keep your friends out of it.
They love you and want you to get this guy, but friends have a way of embarrassing us and making things seem worse then they really are. Do this one on your own.
Good luck!!
2007-05-11 17:25:29 · answer #3 · answered by Trish 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if your still interested, what allways works for me is to get one of your friends that is also friends with him to find out if he is intersted. If he is, than get that same friend to talk him into asking you out. OR you can talk to him yourself. just start with casual stuff, and then move on and ask him...if you want. I find the first approach more aqward than the second..but its your call.
2007-05-11 17:23:39 · answer #4 · answered by vittiroma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else. This sounds like a mess.
2007-05-11 17:21:48 · answer #5 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u really like him, u should try and explain wat happenend, if that doesnt work, jus find someone else
2007-05-11 17:24:10 · answer #6 · answered by duff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋