Okay. I really, really like this guy, Spencer. And I am not sure if he feels the same way....so...I want to talk to him badly, but I don't know what to say...actually, that is kind of a lie. I just feel a bit out of place talking to him since he is always around his friends....Well, we are done with school in a week, and I am probably not going to see him again unless we end up at the same university (and we all know how 1 in a 1,000,000,000 that is....)
But I want to so SOMETHING this week. I wouldn't mind seeing him over the summer. He isn't on facebook or anything. He IS on youtube, but idk....
What should I do?
I don't want to silently sit here and let a chance go by....
2007-05-11 09:53:38 · 28 answers · asked by pandabear322 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Walk up to him and whisper in his ear, Can I talk to you alone for a minute? When he says yes and you are alone, tell him you would very much like to get to know him better if that will be at all possible. Ask him for his phone number and his email. Ask him what his plans are of the summer and if he thinks the two of you could see each other during the summer. Ask him where he plans to go college.
Tell him answers to all of your questions for yourself.
2007-05-11 10:00:54 · answer #1 · answered by Toosense2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look u obviousely feel strongly for this guy now the kye would be confidence if u have confidence that u can do this then u will be able to just one day when you see him walk strait up to him and say hay whats going on ask him where he plans on going to collage just little chit chat if you feel shy about being around his friends well talk to them as well dont just talk to him get to know his friends also try and convience him to get a aim if he doesnt already have one or a yim if u prefer ither way come up with some way to be able to talk to him after school gets done with you can make this work it is up to you just put your heart into it and you know what if you try your best you cannot fail i promis and look from what i see hear u wont others to tell you what to do but realy u can only tell yourself u need to go with your heart let it carry you to that right person ither way you need to be vary upfront with him and just go for it dont let his friends being around hold you back maby evan take him off to the side tell him you need to talk to him and just let it all out all your feelings you have for him i hope it works out for you i realy do i have a simmalor situation with a person i may not have if i wait to long and i love so much like i said have confidence he and his friends will like u and they will
2007-05-11 17:05:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont let this chance go bye! Tell him how you feel! Do it in front of his friends, that will show him how brave you are. Guys like girls that ask them out in front of there friends. Go for it......then if u hook up talk about the future and college! If he really likes you, he will find a way to be with you
2007-05-11 16:59:36 · answer #3 · answered by T.J. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel about him, i know what you mean about showing him you like him when you are around his friends, my ex was the same way, but my ex is moving away too and i wont see her again for a long time.....my advice is to go ahead and tell him...you never know......i might do the same
2007-05-11 16:57:15 · answer #4 · answered by damusicmixa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So walk up to the guy and ask him if you guys could talk away from his friends. Give him your number and tell him you would really like to see him after school is over.
2007-05-11 16:57:13 · answer #5 · answered by marisanj 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speaking from past experience I would just call him up. The worst that can happen is he can say he is not interested. If that happens you will both be gone soon anyway. If you do not do it now you may never have the chance and you WILL think on it ten years later and wonder what if.........
2007-05-11 16:58:00 · answer #6 · answered by Angel A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should just start up a conversation. ask his what school he's going to go to. and then ask him what he's going to do for the end of the school year. or ask him if he wants to do something since school's over. just start talking to him. what's the worst thing he's going to say? this is going to be your last chance, you might as well take a chance.
2007-05-11 16:57:18 · answer #7 · answered by emma-me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a perfect thing to start a conversation with. So are you stoked about graduating? Are you going to college, where? blah blah blah, mention you're going to be around for the summer and we should possibly get together.
2007-05-11 16:57:13 · answer #8 · answered by jay k 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Coming from someone who's much older than you, you HAVE to say something. Rejection heals pretty quickly (about 5 days) but it can take a lifetime to heal regret.
2007-05-11 16:58:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk 2 him before you leave. let him know how you because 2day was my crushes last day and i didnt even talk 2 him!!!we are friends and i didnt even say bye im so mad I'll never see him again so dont be like me if want him go get him
2007-05-11 16:58:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋