my ex's friend was very disrespectful to him.
For instance, we were all together and the friends stares at my butt and makes some noises like "um um". I look at my boyfriend and see his eyes getting really big. You could tell he was angry, but he didn't say anything.
Another time the friend just freaks out and decides he's gonna be mad at him. He stops talking to him. They live in a dorm room. Everytime my guy comes home, his friend blares Tupac, "I have no m fing friend, f you *****".
what in the world? Why would a guy put up with this?
I can't stand his friend. He was always causing trouble.
2007-05-11 09:52:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my question is why would a guy put up with this?
2007-05-11 09:58:07 · update #1
oh yeah, he hates me. But I hate him too.
2007-05-11 09:58:49 · update #2
darn it! Should have known it was my fault for having a nice bottom.
2007-05-11 10:00:26 · update #3
I wouldn't wish that loser on any of my friends.
Yeah maybe they have been through a lot together.
2007-05-11 10:01:42 · update #4
The friend is prolly the alpha male of the group and your bf is a wuss.....gotta be said...
2007-05-11 10:01:11 · answer #1 · answered by Triple X 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's one thing for your boyfriend's friend to make fun of him, but when it's disrespecting you, he should stand up and say something. It is totally inappropriate to have his disrespect you like that.
Some guys will have a friend for so long, they tend to shrug off stuff knowing that thier friend will come around and be the guy they know him to be. My fiance's friend can be really arrogent sometimes, and my fiance just shrugs it off saying, "that's just andy" and waits it out.
If the friend is making suggestive comments at you, either your man needs to stand up and say something or you can take it in your own hands and say something. You are a strong woman and need to keep your respect.
2007-05-11 16:58:24 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that this friend of your boyfriend is jealous of the relationship that you and your man have, he probably can't keep a girl and your boyfriend has you and you two are happy and he can't stand it. Or he probably is use to your boyfriend and him just hanging out and now your boyfriend has you and he is feeling lonely and left out. i feel sorry for him you should just try to hook him up with one of your friends and try a double date maybe that's all he wants.
2007-05-11 17:00:07 · answer #3 · answered by tasheema22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gain Some weight. You must have a nice bottom
2007-05-11 16:58:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys will put up with other male friends and side with them. Guys want guy friends. I would beware that he is probably telling your boyfriend to break up with you.
2007-05-11 16:57:25 · answer #5 · answered by Monet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's jealous of you and your boyfriends relationship, it's likely he's lonely and wants one too. Doesn't sound like much of a friend at all.
2007-05-11 16:55:27 · answer #6 · answered by jay k 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i once had a friend like that. they have probably been through alot together. thats just guys. he may be mad at him but he'll get over it after awile. thats just how guys r.
2007-05-11 16:59:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
We all pick our own friends. None of us are perfect, or our friends. Each of us see different qualities in different people.
It's not up to you to question his choice of friends, or speculate, or ask others to speculate on them. I guess you would be the FIRST to jump if anyone qustioned YOU choice of friends
2007-05-11 17:02:13 · answer #8 · answered by lulu a 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he has a Mental Problem. Maybe Bipolar?
2007-05-11 16:56:02 · answer #9 · answered by Stella R 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Guys do this to get attention
2007-05-11 16:55:56 · answer #10 · answered by Ando 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋