How do I show her that i have changed and that i am a different person now????????

Question

I was dating/engaged to a beautiful girl and she was my life she was always there for me and i was alwyas there for her. We had a beautiful baby boy and now he is almost 2, we split up a while back and now I am trying to make things work with us. i lied to her a few times and she knows it b/c i told her. I worked 60-70 hours a week and she stayed at home with our son and took care of him and the house. Well she went out every friday and saturday and on sundays she just wanted to relax. Well when i wanted to go out she would get pissed off and be mad at me. She never had to explain anything to me or were she was going but it was different with me I had to explain myself. WHAT DO I DO?????? I love her and want her back in my life, her and my lil baby boy, they are my life

Answer 1

WELL WITH ALL DUE RESPECT THE BOTH OF
YOU NEED TO GROW UP AND ACT YOUR AGES.
SHE IS A MOTHER AND YOU ARE A FATHER AND
THE BOTH OF YOU NEED TO SET AN EXAMPLE.
AND AS FOR HER GOING OUT I UNDERSTAND
HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT THAT. FOR ONE SHE
NEEDS TIME TO UNWIND , BUT AT THE SAME
TIME YOU NEED TIME TO UNWIND ALSO. IT
SEEMS THE LINE OF COMMUNICTION IS SHUT
DOWN AND IT NEEDS TO BE REOPENED. YOU
NEED TO LET HER KNOW HOW YOU FEEL AND
WHERE THINGS STAND. LET HER KNOW WHAT
YOU FEEL AND WHY YOU FEEL THAT WAY. WHAT
YOU LIKE AND DON'T LIKE. AND SO FORTH,,,,,
YOU HAVE A LITTLE ONE TO WORRY ABOUT.
GET YOUR HEADS OUT OF THE CLOUDS AND
COME BACK DOWN TO EARTH..... I WISH THE
BOTH OF YOU THE BEST OF LUCK .................

Answer 2

Oh boy! Thats sounds pretty bad. Well, u should sort out this kind of matters, If she goes out once u can go once in a week too. If she needs more time for herself she can go for a coffee with her friends. These nights out with friends while u r committed i cant get them. Y u dont wanna go out with ur partner? If u care for each other. Maybe in some cultures like british this is normal. But if smth like that counts for the lady then the same would go for the man. I would tell u differently if the baby was not in the middle. Try to talk to her and explain to her about ur feelings and ur concerns. Try to find out a solution that will work out for both of u. Good luck!

Answer 3

You don't have to show anyone that you have changed. Just walk in your newness. If you are around people that don't believe in you then that is not the person for you.