I'm not sure if he's even interested, he's one of my best friends. And every girl he meets falls for him. But i want him to fall for me! >.<
2007-05-11 05:53:08 · 19 answers · asked by themisfitschick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's one of my best friends. He's so sweet. Girls fall all over him, but he's not a player. I asked him why he didn't just date one of the hotties that wanted his nuts and he said that every girl he meets turns into a too good of a friend. I'm afraid to tell him how i feel because he probably see's me only as a friend and I don't want to ruin our friendship!
Fuuuck , this sucks. he's so great you guys...
Thanks for all the answers, most were great.
2007-05-11 07:49:32 · update #1
you cant
2007-05-11 05:55:11 · answer #1 · answered by ILOVEU 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've already got a head start in being one of his best friends too, right?
I don't like that line "every girl he meets falls for him".
Had this guy who was interested in me and he was like that -- attractive to women. Evaded all my queries as to whether he had a steady girl. I didn't want to be a third party. Girls get up and scream (softly to one another) when he enters a room.
Well he danced a lot with me and said a lot of sweet things which were so practiced that warning bells rang in my head, not wedding bells.
I found someone else less magnetic and married him. Until today, this charming romeo is still attracting all the young and old gals and still not married. He can't make up his mind. I'm so glad I made a head choice.
2007-05-11 06:02:15 · answer #2 · answered by Minerva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can make a guy like you by being a friend but for that same guy to fall for you he will first have to be attracted to you. If he is not don't waste your time. Some guys will take full advantage of this kind of situation but don't really love you or have fallen for you. So I recommend that you ponder on the word 'equanimity' for a couple of days and convince yourself that your worth someone loving you in return. If this guy wants to do things for you and spend time with you without you seeking him out you may have a chance. Good Luck.
2007-05-11 06:06:57 · answer #3 · answered by Juan I 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't make someone fall for you !If he has been your friend taking it the next level could complicate and potientally ruin things. Maybe you should invite him to do one on one things with you not like a date just spend some quality time together. find out if he is really worth your feelings. And if you are sure then try asking him out ! whatever happens good luck and best wishes
2007-05-11 05:59:45 · answer #4 · answered by barbie07lola 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be the best person you can be and the right person will notice. Don't worry if it's not this guy.
Really... why would you want the guy all the girls "fall over"? Don't you see this as a possible problem in the future?
2007-05-11 05:56:27 · answer #5 · answered by mammato4boys 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A simple answer to that is you don't, if a guy is interested in you you'll know about it soon enough stop trying so hard, just go with the flow, and she's a nice girl to.
Dr Knowitall
2007-05-11 06:06:04 · answer #6 · answered by coofooman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi well if he is one of your best friends, then i would say just keep on going the way you are, if you change your behaviour and he falls for you then, you cant keep up the change for very long. and by the way are you sure you want him to fall for you cause if it doesnt work out not only have you lost a boyfriend you ave almost certainly lost a best friend. so think about it. my fiancee was on e of my best friends so i guess that speaks for itself.
2007-05-11 06:02:46 · answer #7 · answered by Temmie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only one that can fall is him. There is no potion or pill and would you really want it if it was a trick? Your best and only bet is to be you - no fake or what you think he wants you either. Simply you - because if he does fall - you couldn't keep it for long. There is no acting in love.
Luck!
2007-05-11 06:01:52 · answer #8 · answered by Linda B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As you know, you cannot get someone to like you. If he's one of your best friends, it may be best that you keep it that way. If he was interested in you, and seeing that he's the ladies man, he would've taken the initiative by now.
Truthfully said, he may not be the one you need in your life...
2007-05-11 06:32:16 · answer #9 · answered by lwheavenlyangel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are going about this all backwards...if you "make" someone fall for you, then you'll just end up breaking up in the near future. if it is supposed to happen, it will happen. if you "make" it happen or come on strong, i guarantee you will regret it and he'll want nothing to do with you.
2007-05-11 05:57:16 · answer #10 · answered by Dr T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
But you are far more beautiful and intellegent than any of your friends...he should fall for you without any extra effort on your part.
2007-05-11 05:55:56 · answer #11 · answered by Dr_M_VanNostrand 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋