2007-05-10 21:13:25 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I believe in forgiving and forgetting though sometimes granted, it isn't always easy. Jesus forgave me so I must do the same. Whenever you harbour a grudge, the only person it really hurts is the bearer anyway and is harmful to your emotional and mental state as well and if carried on too long could quite possibly also affect you physically. I prefer to be happy over bitterness and resentment and letting things go and getting over it and moving on with my life. Good question.
2007-05-11 06:00:07 · answer #1 · answered by toughguy2 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont keep grudges actually...i just tend to keep the hurt with me though sometimes instead of doing the healthy thing by letting them go....but im working on it....
2007-05-11 11:48:24 · answer #2 · answered by Jaded 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you keep a grudge you are just giving the offending person power over you. It has been said that unforgiveness is like drinking poison and waiting for the other person to die. It's not worth it.
2007-05-10 21:17:34 · answer #3 · answered by BERT 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do not hold grudges. I prefer to forgive and forget. To hold a grudge only makes the hate or bad feelings fester inside you and you only hurt yourself in the long run. And wouldn't you want to be treated that way as well--for others to forgive you ? Do unto others ...... (the golden rule.) and a teaching of Jesus as well. <<< Love your neighbor as you love yourself. We are called to be Christ-like (if you believe) and he forgave anyone and everyone.
2007-05-11 01:26:56 · answer #4 · answered by girlnamedmaria 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I let them go, it takes too much energy to hold a grudge for long.
2007-05-10 21:19:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I keep grudges. It's just that I end up forgetting about them eventually... except the really unforgivable ones...
2007-05-10 21:18:12 · answer #6 · answered by Ayachan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i will never forget what that person did to make me even have a grudge against them.
i might just let it go..after a while.
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basically depends on how bad the situation was
2007-05-10 21:18:09 · answer #7 · answered by miss_eyez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Somethings are not personal but are instead good policy. What may seem a grudge is just a man treating another in kind for discourtesies already endured.
2007-05-11 14:28:54 · answer #8 · answered by LORD Z 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i do save n enable them to "vehicle digest" interior my coronary heart till sometime, i will't remember this grudges returned it is how i over come each and every unhappy or unfair issues in my existence n i continuously have self belief issues would be better the following day
2016-11-27 02:18:35 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmnn..if someone has gone to the lengths necessary to get my attention enough to create a grudge situation, I do keep them on my mental watch list of people to be avoided for good reasons..so yeah..in that respect I do keep them.
2007-05-10 22:30:37 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋