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How do you define a man's ego ? Is it possible that some men don't have one ??

2007-05-10 20:41:59 · 8 answers · asked by burlingtony 2 in Society & Culture Other - Society & Culture

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Well a Man's ego is deep inside of them self's and it comes up now and then. Some times if a man has to put on a frilly skirt and have to walk around in public, (and people are laughing at him) on a dare that he lost his ego might skyrocket down or injure it a bit. If a girl or someone comments lets say, the person says"I really liked it when you did this..." his ego might skyrocket up and he will feel good. Some men could not have an ego maybe they don't need one but to me a guy's ego is his self esteem and it can be hurt and his ego will disappear, some men have more ego than others. But the world may never know. This is only based on my opinion. Girls have egos too not just the boys it's our self esteem. I think a guy's ego is his defense and his form of trying to win his prize against another male who wants it too. So this is his way of showing the other male that he's the right one for the prize. I see a lot of men spill their egos and their competitive side comes out on those dating shows you see on TV like Mtv's Next. So there you have it my opinion I'm not a expert on this so I tried. I hoped I answered your question

2007-05-10 21:17:35 · answer #1 · answered by yashayuki 1 · 2 0

Depends on the man. Some men define their ego by the size of their penis. Other men define their ego based upon their intellectual capacity. Others, .... well, you get the point. Any man with a particular purpose which drives them has an ego, but some men are not driven by their needs to fit into society. My personal favorite example of this is Howard Roark, a character from Ayn Rand's "The Fountainhead", who believes so strongly in himself that the characters he comes into contact with can only barely touch him, and ultimately, he triumphs despite the efforts of almost everybody to drag him down. Did Howard Roark have an ego? Absolutely, but his ego was not dependent upon others "liking him". It was dependent on his being true to himself.

I do not believe your premise, "that men generally have an ego problem". What I believe, instead, is that men generally create their own ego and live out the rest of their life trying to satisfy it. To be fair, I think the same can be said for women. Of course, men and women frequently experience very different cultural influences, but people who lack the drive to achieve do not have strong egos, and in some cases, I think it is possible that a person who is abused (whether it be psychological, physical, or both) may very well be so tormented as a result of that that they might not have an ego left. I can't imagine the anguish that such a situation would cause to the psyche of such a person, but I do believe it is possible. I'm not sure the man (or woman) would be the kind of person I would want to know, though.

2007-05-10 21:05:20 · answer #2 · answered by G A 5 · 1 0

Mans ego comes from false ego that I am this body but actually we are all spirit soul which is part & parcel of God.
Our eternal souls position is to be always connected to Krishna in service but due to illusion that we are this body therefore we are suffering in this world

mamaivämso jiva-loke
jiva-bhütah sanätanah
manah-sasthanindriyäni
prakårti-sthäni karsati

TRANSLATION
The living entities in this conditioned world are My eternal fragmental parts. Due to conditioned life, they are struggling very hard with the six senses, which include the mind.

2007-05-10 20:53:50 · answer #3 · answered by Hare Krsna 2 · 1 0

relies upon on the guy. some adult males define their ego by way of ability of the size of their penis. different adult males define their ego located upon their intellectual ability. Others, .... stable, you get the component. Any guy with a different reason which drives them has an ego, in spite of the incontrovertible fact that some adult males are not pushed by way of ability of their demands to verify into society. My guy or woman conventional occasion of it is Howard Roark, a guy or woman from Ayn Rand's "The Fountainhead", who believes so strongly in himself that the characters he comes into touch with can maximum sensible extremely touch him, and ultimately, he triumphs regardless of the efforts of very almost definitely everyone to drag him down. Did Howard Roark have an ego? definitely, in spite of the incontrovertible fact that his ego was once now not stylish upon others "liking him". It was once stylish on his being certainly to himself. i don't experience your premise, "that adult males ordinarily have an ego undertaking". What i've got self assurance, rather, is that adult males ordinarily create their very own ego and stay out the remainder of their life seeking to fulfill it. To be sensible, i think the equivalent is often pronounced for women. Of path, women and adult males very as a rule take excitement in very particular cultural impacts, in spite of the incontrovertible fact that those that lack the stress to earnings don't have physically powerful egos, and in some circumstances, i think it is possible that a guy or woman who's abused (no be counted if or not or not it is psychological, actual, or each and every) ought to very stable be so tormented for that reason of that that they might now not have an ego left. i won't be able to think the ailment that a sort of disadvantage ought to purpose to the psyche of one of those guy or woman, in spite of the incontrovertible fact that I do experience it is possible. i'm now not particular the guy (or woman) must be the form of guy or woman i might desire to understand, in spite of the incontrovertible fact that.

2016-10-04 21:30:55 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

"ego" why men alone?
actually we have mis-understood, mis-represented and also
mis-used, hence it is considered odd,

there is nothing like ego, it is in-built part of human by birth,
essential for individual`s existance and progress, but we
termed it as "i am something"

the words "i am something" is eually applicable to all of us,
and that is presently considered "ego", though essential but as
it is mis-used, so is mis-represented too.

believe you me, i do have "ego" of-course a positive one.

2007-05-10 21:21:28 · answer #5 · answered by Karsan 3 · 1 0

All men have one
People are not perfect we all make mistakes maybe I was too selfish at the time

2007-05-10 20:45:10 · answer #6 · answered by thur03joanne 3 · 1 0

some men do n some men dont.. but can we blame them? men are not the only ones.. us women have them 2.. and could be pretty mean bitches about it.

2007-05-10 20:46:16 · answer #7 · answered by A. Jolie #1 Fan 2 · 2 0

real men dont. but guys who make a *** out of others do this to look big in there buddies eyes. in my opion?

2007-05-10 20:46:55 · answer #8 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 1 0

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