i started watching female porn vedios at a very young age. but by the time i became 14 i was fed up of it. so now i started watching male porn videos. does that make me gay? now i am 16 and have started to get bored with these also.
now my father came to kno that i have bin visiting such sites. he told me in a very disappointed voice that it is not good. i felt very ashamed and have reduced watching them. can i convert and become straight?
NOTE:i have not had physical relation with any guy or girl as yet.
2007-05-10 20:28:18 · 11 answers · asked by asker 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
you cant "convert" thats crazy. you are who you are, and until you figure out exactly who that is, the question of whether it is bad or good is not relevant. figure out who you are first, then worry about dealing with your dad.
2007-05-10 20:56:00 · answer #1 · answered by bluestareyed 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is watching porn such a huge past time for you? I don't think that helps anyone your age find out who they are. Why are you so bored? Why don't you find something else to do, because all this ADULT material is obviously confusing you.
2007-05-11 03:58:28 · answer #2 · answered by cargirldawn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are still young and confused on what you what. Until you have contact with both and decided on what you want you will not know fully. I mean videos are videos. It's not dealing with a living, breathing, and fully functioning body with emotions. Most people don't figure or fully come out until they go off to college. Whatever you decide to be eventually come out later in life. Good Luck!
2007-05-11 04:34:44 · answer #3 · answered by Jha Jha 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to rationalize these thoughts into the sexual actions themselves. Do you like a certain kind of sexual stimulation? Can it be performed by either gender or is there more "lean" to one or the other? ( i.e. if you like to watch a BJ, do you get turned on by the makeup or the mustache or both).
2007-05-11 04:12:40 · answer #4 · answered by ehlonader 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
So far you are just a voyeur. You've not shown any interest (really) in either sex. It sounds like you are a "late bloomer".
Just wait until you are older. Your body will tell you what it is interested in when it is time.
(You can't "convert". You just are what you are. It's like chest hair. Whatever you end up with is what you end up with.)
2007-05-11 06:21:45 · answer #5 · answered by Tina Goody-Two-Shoes 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yea just see the same doctor he cured my of the blue eyed syndrome (a metal abomination derived from early childhood as I had a lack of blue bedding and carpets and instead had an over powering red curtain!)
2007-05-11 05:54:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is no such thing as 'conversion'. I don't even think you know what your orientation is. Ask yourself:
Am I sexually attracted to the same sex?
Am I sexually attracted to the opposite sex?
Am I romantically attracted to the same sex?
Am I romantically attracted to the opposite sex?
If you say yes to the first only, you are gay.
If you say yes to the first and third only, you are gay.
If you say yes to the second only, you are straight.
If you say yes to the second and fourth only, you are straight.
If you say yes to the first and second only, you are bisexual.
If you say yes to the third and fourth only, you are asexual bi.
If you say yes to the first, second and third, you are bi leaning more on the gay side.
If you say yes to the first, second and fourth, you are bi leaning more on the straight side.
If you say yes to the second, third and fourth, you are bi leaning more on the straight side.
If you say yes to the first, third and fourth, you are bi leaning more on the gay side.
If you say yes to all four, you are bisexual.
If you say no to all four, you are asexual.
If you are attracted to yourself, you are autosexual.
If you are also attracted to other things (yourself, transexuals, crossdressers etc) you are pansexual.
2007-05-11 04:06:00 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What are you doing
I want to see you now
2007-05-11 03:31:47 · answer #8 · answered by thur03joanne 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Of course you can convert and become straight. Pray and ask the Lord Jesus Christ to help you. Start reading the Bible and find a good church that believes in the whole Bible and preaches the whole Bible.
2007-05-11 03:42:18 · answer #9 · answered by Eskimo Hammer 4 · 2⤊ 5⤋
Oh so...you can! You watched all these and had no physical experience? Oh honey what a waste. You wasted all your energy on these...!
2007-05-11 03:41:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋