At 19 years old am I ready to enter a serious relationship even marriage?

Answer 1

That really depends on you and the guy involved.

You are asking if you are 'ready to enter a serious relationship even marriage'...which is it? A serious relationship needs to come BEFORE marriage. After you are in a good, stable relationship for some time, THEN you decide if you want to get married.

Being 19 you can definitely enter into a serious relationship! But if you are going to get married, just be sure that you and your partner are ready!!!

I married at 20, my hubby 23....so I'm not about to tell you that you're too young.....but age is really different for everyone! There are people who get married at 16, or 18....personally, I could have NEVER gotten married that young. It's amazing how much different just a few years can make!

If you are having any sort of doubts....then wait. If the guy loves you, he's not going to go anywhere, he'll understand.

Just make sure you are making the right decision before you jump in!!!!

Hope this helps! Good luck!!

Answer 2

I got married at 18, and I've got to be really honest that had my husband not been spiritually sound at the time, the marriage wouldn't have worked out. As it stands now it's been 9-yrs since the day we'd both said "I DO" and we've been through it all (just about). An affair, 1+ yr separation, arguments, 2 births, deaths, I could go on but that would require a lot of time (yet it's a love story worth hearing...& telling... one of these days).

People get married at much younger ages. People get married for numerous reasons. But the key to anything & everything in life is to do it with PURPOSE. You've got to believe and have your heart/mind set before taking any leaps...less you're sure to fall & fail.

The only thing I knew without a doubt about marriages before I got married was that the ones I'd seen, failed & I never wanted to get married. Mines haven't failed because we've both made up our minds from day one (before taking the leap) that we didn't believe in divorce, we both believed in GOD, & that we loved one another more than life itself. Granted, if we'd matured beyond imagination in those areas of belief/faith (or what have you) before marrying....our story wouldn't make for a good one --lol; but the point is that we'd each a common belief/faith/love and that's where our strength to hold on & fight against all odds derive.

Another thing, no one can truly say when another is "ready" for love, marriage, or the like. But to answer your question: NO! if you've got to ask. You'll know without a doubt if & when you're ready. Some may call it headstrong/stubbornness. . . I call it arriving (in that area). Please remember one thing though (as old fash. as it may sound), all relationships are serious. Wherever there's possibilities & consequences there's little room for anything but "seriousness".

Answer 3

19 is way to young to be serious and go into marriage. I was 22 when I got married. You need to be yourself first before adding another person. When you marry as a woman you lose your own identity. You become someones wife-then mom then grandma. Live on your own for while a get yourself in a good job you have gone to tech school or college for. Marriage's at 19 rarely don't get past divorce. Boys are too immature at 19 as well to handle marriage and all that comes with it. Psychologists have stated that men are usually ready and mature enough at 25 for a serious relationship and marriage. Allow yourself to enjoy being you before you get swallowed up by marriage.

Answer 4

Only you can answer that question. Others can give you advice or tell you their stories, but the ultimate decision rest with you.

I married my husband when I was 16 and he was 19. This summer we will celebrate our 32nd anniversary. When we got married, I was certain that I loved him, that we would have a great life, and that we would grow old together, and that I had made the right decision. Several times throughout the past 32 years, I have doubted whether getting married to him or at such a young age was the right thing to do, but I always stayed and worked through my doubts. Now, I am certain that I made the right decision.

Do I think I missed out of things getting married at such a young age? Yes, I'm sure that I did. Do I regret getting married at 16? Maybe things would have been a little easier had we waited, but no, I don't regret my decision. But that's my life.

Only you know the answer to our question.

Answer 5

The only person who can answer that is you. Don't listen to all those people who tell you you're too young or that you shouold definitely go for it, or anything. Come on, do you think your boyfriend would be happy if he asked you to marry him and you said some people on the internet said you were too young?

Do what you think is right. If you're not 100% sure about marriage then don't do it. But don't give up on a relationship unless it's really not working out.

Answer 6

well it really all depends on the kind of person you are and what choices you want to make. now dont think just cause you get married everything settles down and you move into a house and grow old together. you can still see the world visit other place. it really doesnt matter when you get married or settle down , just do what you feel is right. thats right not what you think feels good. best advice here i guess would be follow your heart if it leads to love and marriage and kids so be it. if it leads you around the world so be it. just in the mean time be happy

Answer 7

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Answer 8

most people are not...whether you are can only be answered by you.

Do you expect Mr Right to sweep you off your feet and get married and be nothing but happy butterflies in a field of roses?

If so, you may have unrealistic expectations.

Marriage is easy at first...then really really really tough...then it may get easy again, then gets really tough again...and after the kids leave, it gets easy again...at least that's what I've been told...I got divorced at the second tough part. I would have at the first one, but she got pregnant.

Now, I'm a single dad with custody...and it's tough being alone, raising a child...but even more difficult is being with the wrong person and then going through a divorce...even a 'good' divorce is tough.

Answer 9

Don't be in a hurry. You are still young and you have a lot of opportunities waiting for you. If I were you, I would save enough money first before thinking of those things. If you have saved a lot already then entering into a serious relationship will make your life in order.

Answer 10

I got married at 20. I am now a mother, in love with another man, finding out that my husband might be gay, and realizing that all of my beliefs and morals are VERY different from my husband, who once shared all of my beliefs. People change so much from the time they are 20 to 25, so if I had it to do over again, I would wait. However, I do love my children very much, so I would not ever change that! Just be smart, follow your heart, and make sure you are REALLY in love. It's not about asking yourself if you can spend the rest of your life with someone, but rather asking yourself if you can stand to spend the rest of your life without them!! Good luck and I wish you so much love that you will be happy for a long time!!