There is this girl that I can't stand, she thinks she's so perfect and that she is the best there ever was. She has to be the best at everything! I will admit that she is pretty and skinny, but she's arrogant. I have only one thing on her, I'm a cheerleader and she's not. I have been cheering for 7yrs. loving every minute of it. Now she wants to be a cheerleader also! I love cheerleading, it's my life..I couldn't live without it. So yesterday I decided to ask her why she wanted to cheer and she said, "for the heck of it, it'll be something to do"! I couldn't believe it!! Here I am cheering for my whole life, I love it and I live it and you just want to be in a skirt?! I flipped, the whole bus ride I was like,"wow, if people just want to be in skirts then they should quit, I do it because I love it". I was talking to my friend. She wants to take everything from me!!! Why?! I'm anorexic because of her! Am I being to much of an itch? Don't I have the right to be mad?
2007-05-10 19:39:35 · 15 answers · asked by Me nutrit Me destruit 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She is just in it for the popularity and to have sex with jocks!!!! Why would I want that on my team?
2007-05-10 19:48:40 · update #1
no matter what you are always going to have this type of person in your life. Whether it is at school or at work. It sucks but that type will always be there. You just have to be the tougher person and notice how shallow she is and how low her self esteem is. If she is trying to be just like you take it as a compliment that she looks up to you.
Then wait for her to fall it will happen.
2007-05-10 19:43:51 · answer #1 · answered by Eclipse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you know what to do and what the answer to your own question, only, you are so jealous you want a better semi negative suggestions from the world. You are having a low- self- esteem-syndrome. Don't let it over power you mind and heart. You still have some left but you have to stop thinking about what she's thinking and what she's doing. it's her business and you don't have anything to do with it. Just mind your own business and scratch your own itch. You probably don't notice, but your jealous feelings is so noticeable and i'm sure she notices it too, that's why she could toy around your personality just like that. "Who Cares?" You know how to say that? Say that to your self all the time, everytime she's around and start to annoy you. Look the other way and try not to look at her no matter how loud she laugh or talk. It would be better if you could go somewhere where you will not see her. Act like you are always busy or reading or writing all the time. Ignore her. This will help a little bit. Say "who cares" only to your self. Don't voice it out to your friends. That will be your secret so that you would easily recover from being annoyed. And also, change the topic if your friends start mentioning her name -or/and don't listen.
2007-05-11 03:07:24 · answer #2 · answered by earth angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, calm down. Look, some people engage in activities because they see a future in it, or they do it for love of the game. Others just do it for fun. Some people will not take things seriously. That is a factor of life.
Secondly, I cannot say much about the girl, because i only have your side of the story, but is she really everything you say? And what is so bad about striving for excellence, if it means she is willing to put in a lot of time and hard work. If she carries an attitude like this into cheerleading, your entire squad will be better because of it. And isnt cheerleading a team effort?
2007-05-11 02:44:56 · answer #3 · answered by Jimmy R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First things first, BREATHE. Take a deep breath in, and release. Just ignore those types of people. She probably won't make it onto the squad. Plus....I'm thinking it's more than just being in a skirt. She gets to cheer on the jocks, no? Anyways, back to the other matters. Don't let her get to you. If you let people like that get to you then you're a freaking dormat with the words: 'WALK ALL OVER ME, PLEASE, I CAN'T STAND PEOPLE WHO THINK THEY'RE PERFECT AND THEY'RE NOT' printed in big bold letters on you. Just let it slide and laugh at her. Pretend you don't even know she's there. You have a right to be mad. But then again....take it as flattery sometimes. She wants to be like you. She can't always be the best at everything.....because nobody's perfect (forgive me here...) God wouldn't allow that.
2007-05-11 02:59:32 · answer #4 · answered by devilishangelgirl10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have the right to find her annoying, but try not to lose sleep over it. You can still do cheerleading and love it even if she does it and isn't too crazy about it. If she doesn't end up loving it as much as you do, well, then she'll probably get bored and tired of putting in the effort and go do something else. What will you lose because of that?
2007-05-11 02:47:39 · answer #5 · answered by Ambivalence 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that you should be so mad about this situation. You are making way too big of a deal about it. Let it go. It is not healthy do dwell over something that you cannot change. So what if she says she wants to be a cheer leader. Tomorrow it might be something else. Don't let her get to you. She might even know that it bugs you. That might even be why she iritates you so bad. My advice, just forget about her.
2007-05-11 02:48:26 · answer #6 · answered by amarie11206 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are jealous. Quit worrying about her life and start enjoying your own! What you make of your life has nothing to do with her. Why do you feel the need to be in competition with her? Time to grow up.
2007-05-11 02:44:35 · answer #7 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, why are you anorexic because of her? I don't see any reason for you to be mad, it sounds as though you're just really jealous of her and competing. Who cares what she does, I doubt she takes you into consideration when she's makig decisions. If you're anorexic because of her talk to someone, that's too extreme.
2007-05-11 02:44:15 · answer #8 · answered by diyta 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to live life to the fullest. Don't let little things like a plastic get in the way of your love of life. You continue to do what you love. Forget her.
2007-05-11 02:47:17 · answer #9 · answered by Mary M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be flattered...basicly it means she is jelous. A lot of people want what someone else has. The grass is always greener in someone elses yard.I've seen it all of my life. Kill her with kindness. She will get boored when she sees your not bothered anymore.Trust me she will hate it. Ree
2007-05-11 02:49:45 · answer #10 · answered by Reesconfusion 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋