2007-05-10 19:39:12 · 11 answers · asked by yussuf m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
hmmmm....men don't usually go all wobbly and emotional and constantly 'say' things like 'I love you'. Most men usually prefer to 'show' their love in many different ways.
Since you married him, you should know his personality...if you're not sure that you love him...are you showing your love in all the ways that you can? You might see a better side of him...remember that like attracts like...love attracts love...positive attitudes attract each other. If you're negative and withdrawn, it's a good bet that he will be also...and vice versa.
2007-05-10 19:47:27 · answer #1 · answered by VodkaTonic 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men show affection regularly so you need to sit down and talk with him about this and let him know what you need. It's unfair for anyone, man or woman, to think the other "knows" or should know ~ they aren't mind readers and that's why communication is so important between people.
Men don't understand that women need to be cuddled and they need to hear "I love you" once in a while and not just when the men want to make love. Let him know how nice it would be to get a card in the mail from him every now and then or for him to bring home a rose to let you know how special you are to him. He probably isn't aware of these things so he needs to read a good book called "His Needs, Her Needs' to get with the program.
My husband is in training, too *wink* I nudge him every now and then with a reminder and he's slowly catching on and doing things on his own every now and then :) :) A while back, he was taping love poems that he found and printed on the internet and I never knew where I would find one. They've been on the microwave, on the bathroom mirror, on my computer....
Keep working with your husband and both of you read that book ~ I think you will find it beneficial.
2007-05-11 02:53:48 · answer #2 · answered by KittyKat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's one question that keeps popping in my mind about my darling. The only way to find out whether he loves you or not is to express your love to him 1st.
Spend more quality time with him talking&gossip,
go watch late night show together,
or
take a holiday and do something that both of you like to do.
The point is not to ask whether he loves you or not, is to re-awake & relive the passion of love.
Good luck! (And all the best for all of us) :)
2007-05-11 02:59:51 · answer #3 · answered by Paladin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's something you should've known before you married him. If he loves you, you'll know, simple as that. He'll tell you and show you. The fact that you're asking makes me think he might not?
2007-05-11 02:42:41 · answer #4 · answered by wizball 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Always worry for your well being before his. Come right home to you after work. Beside his work and his mom. You are his first priority.
2007-05-11 02:46:35 · answer #5 · answered by Lilian 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should know because he tells you and shows you that he does. Through his words and actions, you'll sense his love for you.
2007-05-14 22:47:05 · answer #6 · answered by Tweety 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u love your husband unconditionally,then if he do the things for u that u do for him ,then his love is unconditional
2007-05-11 02:48:33 · answer #7 · answered by levee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you needed a new kidney and he was willing to give one of his to you, then he loves you.
2007-05-11 02:44:35 · answer #8 · answered by Sir Richard 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if he isnt cheating on you i would say he does love you has he gave you reason to think different . in your marrage if not he does. in my opion?
2007-05-11 02:44:03 · answer #9 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he buys you femanine products
2007-05-11 02:51:06 · answer #10 · answered by unbeatablemanmanman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋