Hey guys.. my girl has been out since 8 pm, she said she is with her friend. Well it is almost 3 am, and she still isn't home. I've tried to call her several times and each time her friend is in the "bathroom" and I say stay on the phone until she gets out and she says "I'm going to wake up her parents" She has a history of cheating so don't know what to think?
2007-05-10 19:31:13 · 14 answers · asked by andrew a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She's cheating, or doing drugs! I'm not a guy , but I've been around, and I don't trust your girl for a second. How does she act when she comes home? ( or are you out cold, just what she's hoping). No trust , no relationship. Don't waste your time. Love has to be a 2-way street, or you don't have a chance in hell.
2007-05-10 19:39:09 · answer #1 · answered by LadyLynn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn brother I hate to say I've been there too. It's seriously a nuclear bomb on the heart and mind. Sounds to me somethings up, it might not be cheating at all but they are seriously not shooting from the hip. My suggestion from my experience is don't worry about it, leave her and explore the world. There's thousands of fish in the sea so to speak and there's a perfect honey for you that wont pull these little drama queen bulls*** pranks on you. If this girl thinks for one second she can get away with this then shes going to exploit it and it'll just make it harder on you next time this happens if you stay. Good luck either way. Also if you do break up with her for the love of god don't talk to her for at least a few weeks, you don't want to relapse.
2007-05-11 02:38:49 · answer #2 · answered by Just keep breathin' 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's one night and you have called her how many times?
If you doubt her at all just end it - release the drama from your life.
Hopefully you are not a control freak. My ex used to go out all the time and I would never ring him I would go out once every 6 months and he would call me like 30 times for no reason - DO NOT TURN INTO THAT!
There is no relationship if you do not trust her
2007-05-11 02:35:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would have doubts like you and abouth the history she has more, well I would say YES she is cheating until this time and still out it is not right.
2007-05-11 02:36:55 · answer #4 · answered by Mel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you need a house to fall on your head. Come on now,do you no how old that bathroom line is.You no you just don't want to face it,it is hard to believe that the person you love would do this to you.
2007-05-11 03:23:59 · answer #5 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry...but it sure sounds that way. If she's cheated before she should be glad you took her back and be more than willing to prove to you somehow that she isn't cheating again. Doesn't sound like that's happening.
2007-05-11 06:51:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt it! It sounds like she is playing games because she knows you care! You are giving her the attention that she is so badly seeking! I know it's hard but pretend like you don't care! If she leaves you because of this then you shouldn't be with her anyways.
2007-05-11 02:37:59 · answer #7 · answered by jnnfchar 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry to brake it to you but it sounds like she's soo chaeting, if she's cheated before you should know better by now, but just for your 411 if you dont trust her you should leave the relationship now. cause you cant have a relationship without trust. trust me it wont work
2007-05-11 02:36:14 · answer #8 · answered by kchilian85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You either hurt now or hurt later. You should find a girl thats true and really cares for you.
2007-05-11 02:37:55 · answer #9 · answered by Seresuto Kawaii 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know the answer to that. The question is why are you still with her?
2007-05-11 02:35:06 · answer #10 · answered by monika 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋