I have been thinking about this alot and he and I have talked about it,having sex. We want to but I think hes afraid to make the move. We've given each other hand jobs or whatever you want to call it when he does it to me but I dont know where to go from there. How would I get him to do more with me? any suggestions?
2007-05-10 15:45:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Your boyfriend sounds like he's very respectful and is willing to wait until you are completely ready. Believe me, that's very rare. Tell him you're ready, you initiate it that way he knows you're making the decision yourself and aren't doing it just to please him. Just make sure you're smart and use protection. Hope that helps. :)
2007-05-10 17:16:38 · answer #1 · answered by Me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You make the move first. A lot of guys are scared to, because he doesn't want to feel pushy or whatever the reason. If you make the first move, it's like telling him it's okay to go further.
Plus, it turns a lot of guys on. ;)
Need any more tips IM or email me.
2007-05-10 22:49:40 · answer #2 · answered by Just Me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can help you with advice. But you can email me as a complete explanation to your question in the open may look ugly.. I assure you to keep confidentiality.
2007-05-11 09:07:19 · answer #3 · answered by Gopal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since I don't know your age, I say wait until the time is right. You both will know. Don't try to pressure anyone into doing something they aren't comfortable with.
2007-05-10 22:50:00 · answer #4 · answered by Jan C 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes first if your old enogh then you should just make then move on ,, stop relying on the man to do it,, this is the 2007 so go for it
2007-05-10 22:49:41 · answer #5 · answered by cassie m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kiss him genlty and pull him close to you and then tell him your ready for more and see what happens! makesure you have protection ready for you and be sure you both ready! You don't want to rush things for either of you!
2007-05-10 22:51:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes a girl just needs to be aggressive. You want it, you know he wants it. He's probably scared you'll reject him. Take initiative.
2007-05-10 22:52:37 · answer #7 · answered by Shar D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't you ask him? Or tell him? Don't you two talk about anything at all about the whole thing? Maybe you should just forget about it.
2007-05-10 22:50:19 · answer #8 · answered by Barbra 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋