Like your too young? Too old? You feel like the only one in the crowd who is diffrent? What are your personal thoughts and views?
2007-05-10 15:42:45 · 17 answers · asked by Casey Lynch 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
LOL! Yes I do. When I was younger I was to young to act like an adult and to old to act like a child. Now that I'm and adult, I'm to young to be with the older group but I feel old with the younger group. I have learned in life, that the world turns and eventually you feel like you fit in and then you start missing the feeling of not belonging or being different. So its all a part of life enjoy each phase before it's all gone. Celebrate your uniqueness!
2007-05-10 15:55:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always. I feel like I dont even fit in my home state, hence why I will be leaving shortly. I have a very sarcastic sense of humor and the few who do understand me, think I am the funnest person to hang with, however, there are not enough light hearted ppl in my state. It's all about "keeping up with the jones's". I cannot deal with ppl who are fake or think they are better then. Show me a single person who has experienced an emotion that no other has? We are all the same.
2007-05-11 08:23:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have already felt that. I am the youngest on our class. When I joined a prestigious activity in our place, I was underestimated. That's my "hatest" of all things, when I am underestimated. But it doesn't matter. When you're too young, the Bible says that don't let your young age hinder you, rather be an example to them in your actions, words, intentions, and thoughts. Your thoughts will reflect your actions. When you feel you're different, always remember that there are also people who feel that too with you. Almost everyone new to a class feels that, but just be friendly and humble and continually show them that you are a friend. Don't forget to trust God to give you confidence everyday and to go before you everyday. He'll guide you. 100% sure!
2007-05-10 23:02:42 · answer #3 · answered by Rhabdite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what your referring to is called social inadequacy the feelings breakdown like this:
1. you say something stupid. RESULT: im not normal
2. your the only one who behaves differently. RESULT: im different
3. you have a habit that you cannot find in anybody else. RESULT: there is something wrong with me.
4. you get criticised for something everyone else can handle well. RESULT: i cant do anything right.
5. you have a determination to do something and you never seem to get it right. RESULT : everyone else does it but i cant.
whether you like it or not it boils down to your self esteem, you think your different because you chose to feel this way, why not convert it something more positive like "im unique". if something goes wrong in your life try to think "im doing my very best and i will get better at this".
to evaluate what im trying to say is you should think more positive, be grateful, try not be self-critical the fact you feel different is evident, in time the seed within will grow and you will feel much better, a new real you that doesnt care how "he/she does it", but more in orient to your individuality.
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Ash4elisha
2007-05-10 23:08:07 · answer #4 · answered by Ash4ElishaCuthbert 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i always believe I don't belong In the school I attend to. Everyone is really smart and I am just average is a really small school. I always believe I don't belong there. Also at home everyone is just different then me.
2007-05-11 01:43:58 · answer #5 · answered by mari 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't even bother to try. I live my life my way without regard for other people's opinion of it or me. Too young? Too old? Who's to say? I'm the age I'm supposed to be: the age I am. I feel sorry for people who think they have to bend and twist and mold themselves into someone else's notion of conformity. How do they even know who they really are?
2007-05-10 22:53:28 · answer #6 · answered by Alice K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All the time
2007-05-10 22:45:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah of course.
I feel that alot
I mean its good to be different, but like today i just felt i didnt belong, i am always doing everything wrong and just nto supposed to be here.
I think both of us will find a reason or something that we do belong with. and we will find our way :]
2007-05-10 22:46:18 · answer #8 · answered by dfgsdf 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As Woody Allen attributed to Groucho Mark, I would never want to belong to a club that would have me as a member.
2007-05-10 22:45:17 · answer #9 · answered by James 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think if you start feeling like this, it's a good time to open up those closed communication doors and invite people in. Talk to people and be open with your friends, sometimes it's hard but it will make you feel a lot closer to people and a lot more "in touch" with the world around you ^^
2007-05-10 22:47:15 · answer #10 · answered by darkness_covered_in_light 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋