He is not really enjoying with me. He is not satisfying me alt lease a moderate level. After 5 minutes from the moment of he started to penetrate his penis to my vagina immediately sperms are coming out. I am not happy with him. But I still loving him. Please give some useful ways to overcome it. Serious answers only please.
2007-05-10 14:54:50 · 30 answers · asked by Vijaya Shanthi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Please don't go in for any self meditation at it can spoil his total sexuality, he can become impotent completely. The best course is you consult a qualified sexologist with proper Allopathic degrees not the ones having other degrees of Unani or Aryuvedic medicine. A proper medicinal treatment can only improve his sexuality & make him stronger in sexual drive.
2007-05-10 18:22:41 · answer #1 · answered by vijay m Indian Lawyer 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Dear Vijaya, you have not mentioned your age or any other medical factor that could be responsible for early fall.
How ever I would like to suggest you to have more of fore ply by your hubby and the movement you reach the excitment takeover from him. The best thing is lying position and you ride over him, you can give him a toffee or gudd to chew. This will increase his duration and I belive will help you reach the climax to your satisfaction.
After your turn let him do it as per his own prefered position. This would give satisfaction to both of you in turn.
Generally this type of problem is found due to more gap. Its adviceable to have at least 2-3 times a day so that the seamen stock does not get stored for longer time.
This the best procedure that you can follow, nothing to worry its all normal.
2007-05-10 19:27:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As u have not spelled any thing abt getting aroused, it seems less time in intercourse is creating the dissatisfaction. In that case u can convince ur husband to use creams or sprays available in all medical shops (e.g climax ) so that he wont come quickly and u will get the satisfaction.These things are simple anesthesia like and dont have any side effect. If more amount is used then ejaculation will take more time hence amount 2 be used depends upon individuals. good day and enjoy.
2007-05-10 16:53:04 · answer #3 · answered by badboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. This is the problem with all of us - only few with horse or dog genes are blessed to go long and hard
2. You need to take control in the bedroom
3. Teach him there are other ways to enjoy than penetration
4. Bing him back to life once he is done spurting over you
5. Build his confidence and he will be better
6. Give him kudos even for a weak performance
7. Feed on his ego and burp
I can go on but it would be ****
2007-05-11 16:32:43 · answer #4 · answered by nice guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What I suggest is maybe give him a BJ and then have him penetrate you. This might make him last longer. Also try different positions - some don't create as much friction and may last the experience ( side to side)..etc.
Good luck
2007-05-10 15:37:06 · answer #5 · answered by ensoman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear vijaya,
i think you have a wrong concept about sex. a sex is comprises of so many things like love, consideration, co-operation, adjustments etc.
Before entering into you, spend some time in foreplay. it comprises of kissing, patting, touching speaking something beatiful with low voice etc. by doing so, you reach in an ectasy. then ask him to enter into you. really, duration of sex is not more than 5 minutes, sometimes it may be below 5 minutes.
2007-05-10 18:17:37 · answer #6 · answered by Jayakrishnan N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many things can change that including his own control on ejaculation. For a change, try the woman on top position where you take charge. When you feel he is about to come, stop and it will recede. Continue like that and bring him to ejaculate at the appropriate time.
2007-05-12 08:30:10 · answer #7 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show him what to do. He sounds like he prematurely ejaculates. Let him do his thing with you first, then you show him what pleases you. Otherwise, this isn't something to get upset over. He could be cheating, beating you, etc., so be thankful you have a husband who at least thinks you are beautiful and treats you well.
2007-05-18 05:58:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you both go and chat with your doctor. he could give you the treatment and answers your looking for. if thats no good then jump in your car and take your self to a s*x shop and get ur self some toys or do it online. good luck
2007-05-18 06:26:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better consult specialist. some psychological usual problem nothing abnormal e sure.Thanks for giving co-operation See has he work tension or other family tension. This should be first reason.
2007-05-18 00:54:42 · answer #10 · answered by baba 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋