what do men really think?- i just want to know what men really think when they ask a women to send the rest of their life with one woman.
2007-05-10 14:23:16 · 13 answers · asked by alaina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2007-05-10 14:26:37 · answer #1 · answered by prouddaddy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Madly in love" is a rather passionate statement, nothing against it, but it's wouldn't be a good basis for choosing a life partner.
Physical attraction is a nice thing, but that does not always last, a few people are lucky to stay very pretty and healthy, maybe even sexually active, still, that alone is not enough to keep a marriage.
if and when i ask a woman to spend the rest of my life with, i will know for certain that the we agree, for most on the essentials, her faith, her parenting style, her view on money, her relationship with her parents maybe, i will definitely hope she is sincere, kind and supportive...i sure hope she is pretty too :)
2007-05-10 14:36:11 · answer #2 · answered by Tuesday 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me give you an example. My flatmate x has fallen madly in love/lust with this girl (for real!) and he is stricken and devastated and generally overwrought by the fact she's not interested in him. I think there would be nothing better to him than the idea of living together with her, because he is madly in love.
But it would wear off I think and then? Well I'm not so sure. It all depends how well the love is cemented, and on what grounds.
2007-05-10 14:47:34 · answer #3 · answered by Flaze 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Amazing answers given to your question. I being
a man and a husband am not madly in love with my
wife, I am just in love with my wife for more than
20yrs and I don't need to ask her to be with me
for the rest of my life as I treat her with respect
and am responsible for her and because of our
love and committment towards each other that is
what keeps us togeather and when you have that
in two people, madly in love is not necessary.
2007-05-10 15:07:10 · answer #4 · answered by RudiA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are having a brain fart. Now days Most not all, do not stay madly in love, they just get mad. There are the few as there are exceptions to the rule, but women are not all angels either. Nothing now days seems to last forever, except death.
Not being morbid just what I have seen a lot of.
2007-05-10 14:30:18 · answer #5 · answered by Sage 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well me as a man, I think I would be set and feel complete with myself. A lot of other men who get attention probably don't like the thought of settling down with just one woman. That's just my opinion.
2007-05-11 17:30:08 · answer #6 · answered by BZCranium 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its great until you find out how much work goes into it ... then u reflect and determine if its really worth it ... and either you look for the "so-called" greener pastures or put in the effort and create a life together for better of worse.
we decide to grow from within and you are the path
2007-05-10 15:20:00 · answer #7 · answered by collin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because feelings do something to a men's brain, where we loose sense of logic and reality, I believe love is somewhat like that for both, but my first thought was because we are suckers.
2007-05-10 14:31:25 · answer #8 · answered by Alejo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are in love and can see being w' him yes there is someone you can spend the rest of your life with except the up and downs
2007-05-10 15:13:28 · answer #9 · answered by david m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been married for 2 , no, 3 , no 2 years now ( I think ).
I don't do romance, can't recall her birthday or our anniversary.
But I do love her, faults and all, and she loves me.
I will tell you what I do do though.
I protect and support her, I love and care for her, and may God help the man who ever tries to hurt her.
My Wife is my life.
Now, where did I leave Her ;-)
2007-05-10 14:35:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋