what is the best way to have a good masturbation where u orgasmn,i dont know what to do plz help me
2007-05-10 12:48:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
could some more ppl plz answer my question the more the better im picking someone for best answer as well so hurry,i need help,is masturbating at 14 bad
2007-05-10 13:20:17 · update #1
my parents are always home will it make noise if i orgasm
2007-05-10 13:30:14 · update #2
Well, you can try the water method, if you don't mind climbing inside the bathtub. What you do is position your hips beneath the faucet, with the water running at a temperature that you choose, and spread your legs then your vaginal lips to allow for the flow of water to hit you on your clit. This makes for a very quick orgasm, so if you want a slower orgasm, then you can just stimulate your clit with your fingers, applying slight pressure and moving slowly in a circular motion (make sure your fingers are really clean, you don't need irritation due to germs). There's also a vibrator or a dildo. You can purchase one of your choice and use that to your complete satisfaction.
P.S.
Masturbating at 14 isn't bad at all. I did it at your age, and I wouldn't worry about your noise level. That may be why you should try the water, the sound will drown out any noise you make.
2007-05-10 12:58:44 · answer #1 · answered by sustasue 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I'm the same age as you and I know a lot of people who do the same thing, so don't feel so bad about it. ;-)
I managed to figure out a way to have an orgasm without making noise but I still try to masturbate when my parents arn't around so I don't get caught. That would be so awakward. Anyway, what I do is I have this old electric toothbrush and it's one of the one's where the bristles are in a circle then there's this little part right below with normal bristles that moves up and down. Just ask your parents for a new toothbrush and find the cheepest electric toothbrush at the drugstore. Use it for a while then use it later for masturbation. What I do is I put the toothbrush on my clitoris to stimulate me first, then I have this wax dildo I made and I use that and at the same time I listen to sexy music and it really gets me going. To make the wax candle you can just tell your parents that you need to make a candle for a school project. Buy some candle wax from the drugstore and then... eh just look up directions online. I'll probally post a link in the source list or something. but yeah, I like the wax because if you can just reheat it and make different shapes allong the "candle" to fit your style of masturbation. Oh fyi, for the wax dildo it's really going to be a candle but cut the wick short so it's hardly there.
2007-05-10 14:11:36 · answer #2 · answered by ♫Izzy♫ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Generally speaking, masturbation has no negative effects on womens' health. If a woman uses a foreign object for masturbation, there is a risk of injury (if it's an object not meant for that purpose) or infection (if the object is not cleaned properly before use). Excessive masturbation can cause yeast infections or urinary tract infections. Standard female masturbation has health benefits. Orgasm causes muscular contractions in the uterus that can tone muscles and help make periods less uncomfortable. Female sexual fluids are important to maintain the ph balance of the vagina and the chemicals released by the brain during masturbation are good for mood and may even help with sleep problems.
2016-05-20 00:41:23 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy a small vibrator. The vibration is awesome and will help you reach an orgasm. Maybe even look into the vibrator that comes with a clitoris tickler. Have fun!!
2007-05-10 12:53:05 · answer #4 · answered by DRE 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it takes different things for different women but try this: get a vibrator...just like one of those egg shaped ones and move it around on your clit until you find the spot that feels best and hold it there until you orgasm. thats a major orgasm spot for most women i've talked to...
2007-05-10 12:52:32 · answer #5 · answered by kestrelk8 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
strum ya clit at a speed you fill good with,use some oil on it ,as you don't won't ta get saw plus moist is better.
2007-05-10 13:01:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Wow your asking a really deep question
2007-05-10 12:52:58 · answer #7 · answered by puddinskitz 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
every one is different, you just have to relax and enjoy it. kegels help enhance sensitivity.
2007-05-10 12:56:58 · answer #8 · answered by Laura W 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If it feels good ... do it. Remember, mood is everything. Don't stress trying.
2007-05-10 12:51:40 · answer #9 · answered by lollipop 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
use your fingers... stroke the clitoris for an orgasim
2007-05-10 13:24:40 · answer #10 · answered by Dylangirl 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋