2007-05-10 09:42:26 · 7 answers · asked by KALI p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your best friend is getting married and there is nothing you can do to stop her. Be happy for her, not jealous of her!
2007-05-10 09:52:07 · answer #1 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a lot you can do. My sister is doing the same. She's marrying a guy in August she's only known for 5 months (It'll be 8 months then.) He's divorced w/ 2 kids, she's never been married. I can't really tell her not to, or even to wait 6 months or so. She'll think I'm not supporting her. But I'm worried.
There must be some reason you don't want her to get married to this guy. Just pray something happens to let her know exactly what she's getting into.
My stepmom always told me to test a guy before you marry him. You know, call at three in the morning and see how he responds; or surprise him with a picnic or something out-of-the-blue. If he gets grouchy with her, then he probably isn't ready for marriage. If he's thrilled to see and handles it nicely, then he can't be too bad.
Good luck!
2007-05-10 16:56:51 · answer #2 · answered by Deb G 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
talk to her and tell her the reasons why - I recently did this and my friend really saw and understood what i was saying and she called off the wedding and has been so much happier without the jerk.
2007-05-10 17:11:41 · answer #3 · answered by cassief131 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop Being a hater
2007-05-10 17:08:28 · answer #4 · answered by Kevin C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Broach the subject once and forget about it.
2007-05-10 17:18:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you keep your mouth shut and be a good friend and be happy for her
2007-05-10 16:57:50 · answer #6 · answered by abc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be happy for her and quit being selfish
2007-05-11 02:42:17 · answer #7 · answered by sylvery_fae 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋