2007-05-10 09:38:13 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No one will ever know women lie about how many sexual partners they have had especially the ugly ones and the one night stands and the quickies in the bar bathroom they don't want anyone to think of them as Ho's. Most husbands only know the very tip of the iceberg on how many sexual partners and sex acts their wives have preformed on other men and women.
2007-05-10 09:51:29 · answer #1 · answered by bluemist 4 · 1⤊ 4⤋
It definitely varies but I think there are MANY variables to the number. One could be the woman's age. On average, a 20 year old who gets married is going to have slept with less men than a 30 year old. Another variable could be there personality and any history of sexual abuse. Personality disorders such as Bipolar often results in many partners and sexual abuse can lead to the same or the opposite (abhorring any sexual contact). Also, it does come down to self-respect and how the women views her sexuality. It is one thing to be sensual and have healthy sexual relationships but it is another to recklessly sleep with anyone and everyone (and often is the sign of low self-esteem or a need to feel "loved"). I am not sure you should be concerned with the number but with how the woman seems emotionally and how she is within the relationship. Although, if a woman is older and has not had many or esp. ANY sexual relationships then I would say there MAY be cause for concern. There is a reason for that and it is usually not a healthy one.
2007-05-10 10:03:25 · answer #2 · answered by Wendy G 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I remember reading in a magazine a few years ago that it was 7...
There are billions of people in this world though so with a topic like this I don't think we can really generalise. Depends on the girl and the choices she's made in life... let's just say that I'm probably above 'average' but I don't regret any of it as each and every encounter have taught me a lot. Just to add to that - many women only sleep with one or two before they marry as they don't spend much of their young adult life single - they are either married or in long-term relationships while single girls are out meeting men, realising they are not going to settle for second best and moving on to find someone better.
2007-05-10 09:54:28 · answer #3 · answered by ainealainn 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If the girl is emancipated , there would be a handful. If she is wild, only you can imagine it. And then there is the country factor. There are places that this is absolutely no, no, stoned to death and all. In short, a girl will keep sleeping with other guys until her Mr Right comes along.
It is not a guide that it's time to get married just because she slept with enough men.
2007-05-10 10:14:21 · answer #4 · answered by Prudie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Never met a woman that was not a ****.Men if you think you are getting a prize you better go back a step.Hate to say it but woman are sorry as hell.Used to hide it but not any more.Very little I have not done to women (several)& they loved it.I don't think you can be to rough to them.If God had put a third party here I would not be with women.GUY
2015-06-11 07:37:36 · answer #5 · answered by Guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nowhere near as many as after the marriage lol
Seriously a guy will sleep with as many as he can. Depends if he is looking for a marriage partner or not. We all have to wait until it feels right.
2007-05-10 10:38:28 · answer #6 · answered by martin m 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I don't think there is an "on average"
It just depends on the girl. It's much more common now to sleep with someone before marriage, but it really varies from girl to girl.
2007-05-10 09:42:04 · answer #7 · answered by Brin 4 · 2⤊ 3⤋
I Wouldn't have a notion my husband was my first but then i met him when i was very young and gosh it was a bad experience, OK i shouldn't have married him. Well at least I'm now divorced and i do reckon i should have had more partners before settling down into marriage.Suppose due to youth i was scared of becoming pregnant and now that im older im still scared of becoming pregnant. Well if nothing else i ended up with two nice brown hair, brown eyed children so at least i picked the correct person to father my children.
2007-05-10 09:58:43 · answer #8 · answered by D 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
I have no ideal in that because my husband disvirgin me and I have friends around, they told me 5 before getting married, I think it's depends on the lady
2015-12-05 14:17:30 · answer #9 · answered by francis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the girl and her situation. Upbringing and religion also have a major influence. I was raised Catholic so sex has always been made out as this big important thing. I'm twenty and still a virgin and I'm proud of it. I'm not waiting till I'm married I'm just waiting till I'm in love regardless of what age I am.
2007-05-10 09:57:54 · answer #10 · answered by migid 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋