How do you get over your husband cheating? (after kicking him to the curb)
2007-05-10 09:28:02 · 13 answers · asked by Baby Jack born 4/5/09 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no i do the cheating... so im all for cheating!
2007-05-10 09:53:19 · answer #1 · answered by life_l0ve_skyy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, I have been cheated on by my husband. I have not kicked him to the curb, its been 7 months since I found out and leaving was easier said than done. So, I am still here, and I am still hurting, but hopefully time will make it fade.
2007-05-10 17:09:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been cheated on and it is hard to get over, but if you think the relationship is worth saving then you forgive and you work on it together. I find it interesting how the first response to being cheated on is DIVORCE. Apparently not every one takes their vows seriously. My dad cheated on my mom when I was really little, she took him back and they worked it out and now you couldn't find two people more in love with each other, they still hold hands when they walk down the street, snuggle on the couch while watching a movie, go on dates together.... and they have been married for 31 years and affair free for 27.
2007-05-10 17:12:41 · answer #3 · answered by Tainted Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh god yes i've been cheated on and i don't know about kicking him to the curb yet. but it takes time and you need to keep your self busy. Try doing new things, going new places and meeting new people. Eventually you will get over this.
2007-05-10 16:35:15 · answer #4 · answered by wilfeistykitten2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never been cheated on in a married relationship, but I have in another relationship.
How do you get over it? Basically by realizing that not everyone does that, and it's worth investing the time and energy to find someone to be with that doesn't. I don't really know how else to get over it. You do the best you can to be happy with who you are and what you are all about, and then go from there.
2007-05-10 16:33:06 · answer #5 · answered by btpage0630 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go get a haircut, new clothes, a great massage and go out and look at other men.
IF he's a cheater, then he's a dog..........your better off without him. You have to keep telling yourself this.
It's time to think of YOU!!
2007-05-10 16:34:10 · answer #6 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He cheated on me, I never got over it until I left his sorry a**!
2007-05-10 16:34:40 · answer #7 · answered by Rosie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My wife did. It just takes time. That's the only answer. It's hard but you'll get through it.
2007-05-10 16:32:31 · answer #8 · answered by Ronin 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Time will heal all, or at least I hope so.
Best of luck.
2007-05-10 16:35:55 · answer #9 · answered by Brin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. All you can do is live with the fact that he was a cheater.
2007-05-10 16:37:38 · answer #10 · answered by harold 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋