how extreme do you get? i heard this ex was so jealous she planned for someone to make a bomb and blow up her ex boyfriend/husband. this was at the luxor a few days ago. what are the many reasons you get jealous? whats the worst you have done men or women???!!!
2007-05-10 09:00:24 · 24 answers · asked by Big Head 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
oh wow crazy thank for the naswer i hope i get some more.
Jetski i have to disagree i know a lot of guy who hit their women or/and try to run their lives threw fear. i have walk away and never talk to those people. but i do agree with some that jealous should be overrated in a relationship becasue your trying to build trust. i say be jealous to a point but not as a wild person with no self-control but as a human with a mature out look. sometimes i wish my girlfriend would understand just becasue i want to hang out with a girl doesnt mean i want to **** them or if they were to try and make a move on me i would back down a walk away.
2007-05-10 10:49:07 · update #1
I don't think jealousy is a good thing to have in a relationship. I have gotten jealous though many times. I am friends with my fiance's ex and when they get together I kinda find it hard to think of her as a friend instead of his ex. I know there is nothing. My fiance is also jealous at times. A lot of jealousy will ruin a relationship but a little is sometimes good. When I get jealous it makes him realize once again how much i love him and i don't wanna lose him, when i see him get jealous it makes me feel sexy and really important. So I go both ways on this one!
2007-05-10 09:07:42 · answer #1 · answered by Kayla 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sunbun...please don't kid yourself...lol
Yes I am jealous but it's a normal jealousy that most people would feel in a given situation. Like I would get jealous if I saw a woman all up in my man's face or constantly putting her hands on him. I would feel jealous if my man was doing that to a woman. I woud get jealous if my man was over some woman's house who I didn't know.
If I get jealous or uncomfortable about something, I let my man know immediately that I won't put up with any games but I have never done anything extreme that would be labeled "psychotic." The only thing I have ever done was put a spy program on my computer...LOL....and I found what I was looking for too. Again, I had to let him know where I stand and the sh*t better stop or Im walking. And it stopped. :)
That's a good one Mel....lol
2007-05-10 09:24:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Pick me ******, Anyways I am not a jealous person. I wish the same thing. I love my g/f to death but she gets jealous If I hang around girls or talk to them, I hate that. But on the other hand I am alittle the same way. That is why I really don't associate that much with people including girls that much. So I know exactly what you are talking about. I am being sincere also. Have any more questions pull back a couple of feet.
2007-05-12 04:20:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I am not. If a person is confident in themselves then there is no reason to ever get jealous, because they know that even if that person leaves them, there are plenty of other people one can meet and have relationships with. One must also be secure in their relationships. That is a key. You are right, though, too many react to hurt by getting anger and since they don't know how to express their anger, they do dumb things like setting a bomb. Great, now she will spend the rest of her life, or at least her best years, in prison. Oh yeah, she really showed him. One must always keep their heads, think before acting, and do what is best in the long run. But again, it will come back to believing in ones self.
2007-05-10 09:03:22 · answer #4 · answered by John B 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I can't say that I am a jealous type person. In fact, my husband and I have an "open marriage" and have never been even a little upset when he has taken advantage of it. Life is to short to worry about things like this.
2007-05-10 09:03:59 · answer #5 · answered by syns_pleasure 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I may get a little jealous .if the flirting gets carried away I don't know if that is jealousy or I feel I'm not being respected
2007-05-10 09:17:03 · answer #6 · answered by Just me 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am not that jealous. But I do get jealous from time to time. It's human nature. I am protective of my husband. If he looks at another girl, or if I think he's looking at another girl. I make comments about her, say she's ugly and ask him if he think she's hot.
2007-05-10 09:12:30 · answer #7 · answered by Ben's Mommy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's okay to be a little bit jealous, but to take it to that extream is just crazy.
I've never done anything out of jealousey.
Wemon are always the one who go over board.
Thats all I have to say about that.
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2007-05-10 09:08:46 · answer #8 · answered by jetski 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i have to admit i do get jealous sometimes.
i wont do anything about, except maybe writing a angry/depressing poem.. i might ask them about it, if it was something major.
id get jealous if i he tells me about this girl i know likes him, and how he was hanging out with her,or if i see him acting flirty to other girls.but i cant be to upset cause i do the same thing, i wouldnt do anything extreme unless i found out he was really cheating on me.
cause at the end of the day hes with me.
2007-05-10 09:14:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think jealousy is just a nother form for saying I don't trust you, and I don't believe you, and so when you find out that your right, you get pissed off.
In a relationship you shouldn't have to worry about other people taking your partner, there should be trust, and loyalty and respect, if you don't have those then you don't need the relationship or the jealousy..
2007-05-10 09:11:24 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋