How can i change man's way of thinking and his beliefs?
2007-05-10 08:48:31 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You can't.
2007-05-10 08:56:19 · answer #1 · answered by harold 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can't, just like a man can't change a woman's way of thinking or beliefs.
The only person who can change your beliefs is you. Everyone else in the world can try, but ultimately you have the final say over your mind.
If you want to try to motivate that person, it's simple. Praise/reward the thinking you like, and discourage/ignore the thoughts you don't.
2007-05-10 08:52:50 · answer #2 · answered by Pythagoras 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You cannot.
As the saying goes, "a man marries a woman thinking she will never change, and she does; a woman marries a man thinking he will change, and he doesn't".
What you have right now essentially will not change, not today, not next month, not in ten years.
I know that's depressing, but perhaps now you can make a real decision based on these truths.
2007-05-10 08:50:36 · answer #3 · answered by John B 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately you can't change someone. Try and remember a persons beliefs are theirs. All I can suggest, is for you to live your life and your beliefs and stand up for what you believe in.
2007-05-10 09:02:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wonderfly idiotic question. It is people like you that make life fun. You can not change someone. You are an external influence. Motivating change is internal. The best you can do is provide a motivational environment and encourage change. With that said. Love him for who he is, not what you think he should be. or move on. I would be spiteful if my lady tried that on me.
2007-05-10 09:05:41 · answer #5 · answered by Shootsscores 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to??? You can't make anyone change. They have to want to change and do it on their own....If you don't like the way he thinks or agree with him on his beliefs then maybe you should reconsider on being with him.....Who knows if you stay together and get marry and things turn out for the worse......You don't want him to resent you neither.....
2007-05-10 08:59:22 · answer #6 · answered by Yvette D 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you cannot change man,s way of thinking and his beliefs put u can change your man go to chose anther man i am in my way to looking for anew man man,s beliefs never be change
2007-05-10 09:30:53 · answer #7 · answered by dodo d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way that you can accomplish that is to change the man that your with. As in, an entirely different person. Nobody can change another person.
2007-05-10 08:54:43 · answer #8 · answered by Sophie 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Fast and pray for him for one solid year and then see what happens. Just eat enough to stay alive. Read the Bible for 2 hours a day and pray for an hour more.
2007-05-10 08:56:04 · answer #9 · answered by Toosense2 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Easy. Find someone who believes he is actually a woman trapped in a man's body.
2007-05-10 08:55:55 · answer #10 · answered by Sir Richard 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This has been tried by millions of women over thousands of years and none have succeeded yet. Unless you possess god-like powers, you will also fail.
2007-05-10 08:51:25 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋