2007-05-10 07:41:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
i dont have girlfriend.I am lonely.
2007-05-10 07:49:04 · update #1
I think it can mess with your feeling about normal, healthy sex. Sex is suppose to be enjoyed by a man and his wife. Pornography can mess with your feelings towards women, and make your expectations of sex unnatural. Sex was created to be an emotion. It is suppose to mean something to the man and woman involved. You are suppose to consider her needs and put them above your own. And she is suppose to do the same. (And no, I'm not one of those sappy, sentimental women who say " making love". I actually hate that term. I love hot rough sex, just as long as it is only between my husband and I.)
2007-05-10 08:47:15 · answer #1 · answered by Snow 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You might better just use a magazine or your imagination. Several things wrong about watching porn:
1) It gives you unreal expectations of what real life itself will offer you. You are not going to have a 12" dong (hint; the guys in the porn didn't either until they were digitally enhanced!) You wife/girlfriend is not going to look or act like an actress. You shouldn't want her to!
2) It makes you feel that women are just objects to be used, not people to be loved. That attitude is really sick but it's common among porn addicts.
3) The mob produces a lot of this crap, so you are enriching criminals and degrading women by buying it.
4) There is a real danger of addiction, which destroys your ability to enjoy real relationships.
Just don't watch it!
2007-05-10 15:08:58 · answer #2 · answered by Maple 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly the vast majority of people who have seen porn are not addicted to it. if you do anything too much and become addicted its bad. most of us have been looking at it since we were like 12 its not that big a deal. yes a 19 year old guy can watch porn thats why ur only supposed to be 18
2007-05-10 15:22:25 · answer #3 · answered by ridr90 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Porn has led to many of our society's issues with abuse, sex, divorce, etc. There is no physical problem that would occur through porn, but emotional and personal problems can result from a distorted view of reality. Porn is not reality. Actually, it causes a lot of pain and hurt for many participants that produce it. They just don't know how to get out of it. Until our society learns that sexual relationships are sacred and that women were not and are not created to be a man's sexual fantasy and fulfillment, society will continue to experience the digression it is in. We shouldn't be participating in porn, but trying to figure out how to get rid of it. It demoralizes women and is a false representation of their purpose in life.
2007-05-10 17:55:03 · answer #4 · answered by funjudds 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy watching porn is fine and it shouldnt affect your life in any way. That is unless you become detatched from everyone and see porn as the only aspect of your sex life. Otherwise though its a healthy thing that helps you to get off.
2007-05-10 14:46:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes a 19 yr old can watch porn asnd no it wont have a negative impact in ur life unless u watch it 2 much and become addictive.
2007-05-10 14:45:35 · answer #6 · answered by blackoceanview 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its perfectly normal but you will knacker yourself out if you cant avoid the touching your penis routine that often follows when excited. if you cant help yourself make sure you drink plenty of water on a daily basis or you may become dehydrated quickly.
porn like all other things in life is good for you in small doses..
enjoy,,,............but dont get caught by your mother its really embarassing
2007-05-10 14:56:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen up. Ok. When you watch porn you're giving up something really special. Your girlfriend (if you have one that is). You'll give up all your attention to this stuff and not pay attention to her at all.
2007-05-10 14:47:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Porn is good for him.
2007-05-10 14:46:10 · answer #9 · answered by Dr. Goldfish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i watch all the time dude were guys it's normal
2007-05-10 14:49:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋