If a person who you love is right beside you but will never be yours, is it the saddest thing in the world. It like in a dessert, hoping love to quench the thirst like water but even the oasis is right infront of you, all you can ever do is to look at it and hope it yours and seeing other people having it.
Worse feeling is when you see her sad, you only wish to make her happy but know you will never be that guy in her life.
Do anyone of you ever have this feeling before or understand what I mean?
2007-05-10 05:47:09 · 18 answers · asked by lakaria_2000 5 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
More details, what if that person is one of your bestfriend that you can never escape from.
2007-05-10 05:59:50 · update #1
Share poem of mine for everyone to see.
I like a blind constantly searching for something that seems so far and yet so near.
A mirage to say in this rushing age; push forward by the current of time.
Fear that I might be lost and never find it in the cold concrete world.
Once a heaven I thought I have but turn out to be only torment of eternal pain.
In my heart I just hope to have an oasis to quench my thirst for love.
2007-05-10 06:02:36 · update #2
I totally understand what you mean. I had a very close guy friend that was there for me all the time. He would send me flowers, talk to me when I was down, and always be there to talk (regardless of what the topic was).
One day he told me how he felt. At first, it put a little bit of a weirdness into our friendship, but we got over it and continued to be friends.
I knew he was an amazing guy, but I just couldn't see him in that light. People would constantly ask me why I wasn't with him. It really sucks to have a perfect guy in front of you, but not have that "attraction." He was a family oriented, great looking guy, but without the spark it made it strictly a friendship on my side. I felt bad hurting him, but you cannot make a person love you.
We are now not even friends. He wanted all or nothing. If he had waited over time, I may have fallen for him, but you can't rush things like this. Either they will form over time, or they won't.
Just keep being you. She will realize your worth someday. Sometimes girls fail to realize the good things that are right in front of their face. If you are not there someday, she will probably miss it.
2007-05-10 05:52:50 · answer #1 · answered by jetskichick25 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Been there done that. It's really tough and sometimes finding a way to physically separate is the only way to keep your own sanity.
Obsession can result from these kinds of feelings and take the joy away from your life. You have to live your own life, acknowledge and grieve for the loss of love not to be and then get back on the horse of life and ride to a new destination. Find that new person who is out there looking for you.
2007-05-10 06:04:43 · answer #2 · answered by KERMIT M 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm well if you know that this person will never be yours then why invest your energy into this relationship, in the end your not only hurting yourself but the one you love aswell..........if you know that your not the guy in her life then leave, because the worse feeling that your describing seeing her sad n all.........don't become the reason for those feelings.
You will find someone else and so will she.........in the end its yours and her happiness that matters with or without each other.
2007-05-10 06:04:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, I would try to take myself out of that situation so that I don't have to ever see that person again so I could get over them and move on with my life to love someone who would love me back.
2007-05-10 05:50:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Loving someone that doesn't love you is like reaching for a star - You know you'll never reach it but you just got to keep trying.
2007-05-10 05:56:18 · answer #5 · answered by Thomas g 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop wasting your time. Maybe you pine for her because you know you can't have her. What you can't get always makes you want it more. Human nature. Maybe you can find a look-alike. My cousin married the sister of his ex-fiance who dumped him for a guy with a Mercedes.
2007-05-10 06:06:03 · answer #6 · answered by Sue 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I understand what you mean! But you can't change something that is the way it is. The sky is blue, no one can change that. Except it and hope it doesn't rain.
2007-05-10 05:51:36 · answer #7 · answered by SDC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on! Cheer up! Life is not that bad! Feelings can fade away, circumstances can change! Never say never!
2007-05-10 05:53:50 · answer #8 · answered by NYC gal 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Quit being so possessive and become generous. Love is something to be shared, not hoarded like a miser. It is then you become miser-able.
2007-05-10 05:53:17 · answer #9 · answered by Sophist 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
RUN AWAY!!! Why continue to put yourself through such agony. Come to terms and find someone awesome.
2007-05-10 05:50:03 · answer #10 · answered by What, what, what?? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋