2007-05-10 05:42:33 · 23 answers · asked by valley girl 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
If you are physically, mentally, sexually and emotionally attracted to the same sex, then chances are, you are gay.
2007-05-10 05:45:47 · answer #1 · answered by Lilly 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
When you see a person of the opposite gender walking down the street, you don't even notice. Then when a person of the same gender does the same thing, you take notice. you might be gay.
If you are in a crowded bus and someone of the same gender rubs up against you, you secretly get a thrill from it, and when a person of the opposite gender does the same thing, you're disgusted, you might be gay.
When you are watching TV and you see an ad for underwear, and it 's being worn by a person of the opposite gender, and you can only think that the dog needs a bath, then when an ad comes on for the same thing only with a person of the same gender, and you have the urge to go out and get new underwear, you might be gay.
2007-05-10 12:49:24 · answer #2 · answered by ron s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes figuring it out is the tricky part. At times in my life I've only been attracted to females and other times just males. Attraction is the first clue but not always the most obvious. Before I had been with females I actually was a little homophobic but would secretly fantasize about being with a girl. It's a tricky question that seems easy to answer to everyone else.
2007-05-10 14:01:29 · answer #3 · answered by Missy K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a box of Mac & Cheese, boil water for it. Stir the noodles around. Feel the steam on your face. Stare into the pot of steaming mystical noodles, and ask, "Am I gay?" Then, child, you shall know. The Mystical Noodles know all.
Sorry! I had to. Okay, in all seriousness. A physical/sexual attraction, a mental and psychological spiritual connection, or just a plain "He/She's Hot" will suffice. Trust me, you just know. When you do, it'll be like and epihpany. Some of you, you know what I'm saying. You'll find out sooner or later.
2007-05-10 12:54:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You look at someone who is the same sex and get arroused. You want to have sex with people of the same gender. The only prerequisite to being Homosexual is SEX.
Things that don't indicate you're gay:
You like to decorate
You like to cook
You dress fashionably
Your a hairdresser
You have a lisp
You listen to Barbara Streisand or K D Lang
You drink "foo-foo" cocktails (or use the word cocktail)
2007-05-10 12:50:27 · answer #5 · answered by Raygae 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you just have to do some reflection, and remember the options, and see where you best fit into the large spectrum. You can be gay, lesbian, bisexual, transsexual, or straight. If you know these, and their definitions, and know yourself, it all falls into place.
2007-05-10 13:49:13 · answer #6 · answered by Luis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will fall in love with the guy you have been trying hard to get attention from.
Cheers
Yee Cs
2007-05-10 16:58:04 · answer #7 · answered by jACKSON 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya just do.
It's really that simple. You find yourself attracted to those of the same gender, you know in your heart it's not a phase or simply exploring/experimenting. It just is.
2007-05-10 12:46:16 · answer #8 · answered by DEATH 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my case that guy in a bathing suit excites me . The girl in the bathing suit does nothing for me.
(and, of course, Tracer isn his red jockstrap - no contest)
2007-05-10 12:45:46 · answer #9 · answered by nycguy10002 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are attracted almost exclusively to members of your own sex, and if this has been happening for an extended period of time.
Trust me, if you are, you'll know.
2007-05-10 12:45:24 · answer #10 · answered by mrthing 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋