I have 5 best friends, they r all nice kind, smart, and popular. (iam 2) I hav been their bfs 4 5 yrs already. but now, i just notice that they occasionally pick some1 to h8 from our group. Like right now it is only 4 coz 1 is h8ed by the others. Once they even h8ed me! (but wer friends again now) Do youthink i should still be in the group? Or do you thik I should hang out w/ my other friends?
2007-05-10 05:16:54 · 11 answers · asked by music_queen01 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I have 5 best friends. They r all vry nice kind snd popular. I am also as well (i think). Ive been bfs w/them 4 about 5 yrs alrdy. But I realise now that they occasionally h8 some1 of our group n they hav good reasons. theyve h8ed me 1ce but we made up already and r hangin out. 1 of us ois now leftout. the reason is that she can't concentrate on her work. if she is w/ us, she will paly n chat. she doesn'tconcentrate wat should i do?
2007-05-10 05:56:30 · update #1
I have 5 best friends. They r all vry nice kind snd popular. I am also as well (i think). Ive been bfs w/them 4 about 5 yrs alrdy. But I realise now that they occasionally h8 some1 of our group n they hav good reasons. theyve h8ed me 1ce but we made up already and r hangin out. 1 of us ois now leftout. the reason is that she can't concentrate on her work. if she is w/ us, she will paly n chat. she doesn'tconcentrate wat should i do?
2007-05-10 05:56:32 · update #2
n btw, i still want 2 be their bf!!! they like me now... they just don't like another girl in our group. do u think its worth risking getting hurt again (if they suddenly decide 2 h8 me again)
2007-05-11 04:19:08 · update #3
Well if your friends say that they hate you, why would you want to continue being friends w. them?
2007-05-10 05:22:58 · answer #1 · answered by bjipp01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've obviously outgrown this group of friends. Much to your credit, btw.
Broaden your horizons and hang out with other people for a while. Make many more friends. Different kinds of friends - even those who may not be as cute or popular as you are.
Of course you have to be genuinely nice - fakery is like so very unforgivable - so be genuinely nice.
When the group of 8 ask why you're distancing yourself from them, be honest. Tell them about the "hate" thing and explain that you think it's not a nice way for friends to treat each other. Then thank them for their friendship and go about your merry way.
Sure, they'll talk about you behind your back because they're petty and immature. BUT since you are a genuinely nice person - with a large group of other nice folks - it won't matter.
2007-05-10 05:36:39 · answer #2 · answered by Barbara B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know how it feels don't you? It's not nice is it? Well i think you should hang out with your other friend as she is on her own and it's not like she has done anything wrong is it? Do you like your other friend? Well she must feel awful, wondering what she has done wrong...
Well you will make the desicion that right for you, lets hope its the right one...
Good luck
x xx
2007-05-10 05:24:57 · answer #3 · answered by charlotte m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's no reason why u cant hang out with both this group and ur other friends. in fact, u should try and make more friends and see which of all ur firends treate you fairly and will never hate you. this takes time but it will be worth it at the end.
2007-05-10 05:24:17 · answer #4 · answered by brigee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your friends are verballly abusing you than they really aren't true friends. It sounds like you've out grown them in maturity and it's time to make new mature friends who aren't abusive, but friendly, kind, accepting, and loving. There are many of these type of people out there. Good Luck!
2007-05-10 05:32:34 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
best friends????
best friends do not treat each other this way at all
I know it's hard to understand but there really isn't such things as b/f.No matter what, someone will disappoint you..and still talking to them kinda means that you are giving them permission to act that way wenever they want..it's not right..if you don't stop it now..then they will just keep on doing the same thing..
think about who your true friends are
'n' GOOD LUCK
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