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So, not too long ago, i accepted and told everyone that i was bi. But ever since then, i havent had much of an attraction to girls, almost not at all. I keep telling myself that its just cause i just accepted that i like boys to, but im not really sure anymore....so, do you think maybe im still bi, or just gay and maybe in denial? But i know that i liked girls at some point in my life....

2007-05-10 02:26:36 · 11 answers · asked by nevrknwsbst 2 in Society & Culture Cultures & Groups Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

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It doesn't really matter is you are gay or bi...
Look at it this way... one day you will fall in love with the love of your life... if it's a boy, you'll probably introduce yourself as being gay....if it's a girl, you and your partner will know that you are bi (and maybe also some good friends) and the rest of the world will think you are straight...
But who cares really...as long as you are happy!

2007-05-10 02:50:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

Well,I'm now 40. When I was young,I was always attracted to both sexes,but I didn't ever explore it,because you just didn't do that back then. So,I grew up married,(badly) and kept it hidden to everyone. Then,when I was about 35,and was single,I decided to explore my attraction to women. I dated exclusively women for many years. Now,I'm in a relationship with a man. I still would date women,if it happened,and am still sexually attracted by them. The point is,don't sweat putting a label on yourself,just be who you are,and enjoy who you're with right NOW. Doesn't matter what did or didn't happen in the past,you can't change it,it's the past. Good luck

2007-05-10 02:38:19 · answer #2 · answered by dragonfly 3 · 2 0

I don't believe in absolutes. I don't think anyone is completely anything.

It's okay that your not attracted to girls right now, you may be again in the future.

Now, with that said, a lot of people transition through bi to gay as a way for them to accept their lifestyle change. It's too hard for some to make the complete leap, so they take little steps. (pardon the mixed metaphore.)

2007-05-10 02:34:46 · answer #3 · answered by GONE 2 · 1 0

Just liking guys and girls isn't what defines being bi or gay or straight.

It is which gender arouses you sexually. If you can be sexually aroused by both sexes then you are Bi. That doesn't mean that you can't "concentrate" on just one gender while occassionally dabbling with the other. If you are aroused only by the same sex as you then you are gay. If only by the opposite sex then you are straight.

It may take a while but you'll figure it out.

2007-05-10 02:33:45 · answer #4 · answered by nycguy10002 7 · 2 0

a million) no longer genuine! 2) i think like now and returned society's rejects style of social gathering. i will say that because of the fact i'm one in each and every of them! In severe college my friends have been the geeks, the socially inept infants, the obese infants, etc. 3) i comprehend that some - no longer, by potential of any potential, ALL - so-referred to as "emo" infants are doing it for interest - with the point to 'be gay' is in basic terms yet another strike-out at society.

2016-11-26 23:55:56 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

It can vary. I average out to 50/50 bi, but my attractions vary according to my menstrual cycle! Maybe you just aren't meeting attractive women lately. Don't think about it too much. You are what you are and it is what it is.

2007-05-10 03:02:25 · answer #6 · answered by GreenEyedLilo 7 · 1 0

You're gay or bi based on the gender you're attracted to.

Simple.

2007-05-10 02:34:10 · answer #7 · answered by Radagast97 6 · 0 0

don't worry about the label
that has messed me up for years
i also think there is a process that takes place when one begins to accept anything about themselves that has been deemed wrong or sinful by others (as usual i am of no help lol)

2007-05-10 08:19:09 · answer #8 · answered by PRIDE! 3 · 0 0

you sound very young. waffling is normal when it comes to sexual preferences at a young age. give yourself time to sort it out.

2007-05-10 02:48:38 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 1 0

it might be because theres no one that you think is hott in your area.

2007-05-13 02:43:01 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0 0

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