im still really puzzeled still... because... idk what hes doing right now... we just continue being friends all the time and we talk about it here and there.. but is it going to happend again.. should i make him be the one thats guessing now? or should i just plan out cancel on this thing that is happending.. but i dont ahh... i wish i wasnt there that weekend.. and just yesterday too. and to know somemore deals about me and him are both males 18 me and 16 him... best friends for a year... should i take that step up.... or go back a big step and just stop hanging out with him for a while...?
i dont know im puzzled ...
2007-05-10 02:16:57 · 6 answers · asked by Exco12 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
make a long story short last weekend something happend to me and a buddy that i wish didnt
2007-05-10 02:18:17 · update #1
If this "Thing" that happened was of a sexual nature, you could be in a bit of hot water there darlin.
You're 18!!! HE'S STILL A MINOR!!
STAY AWAY FROM OTHER PEOPLE'S CHILDREN!!
2007-05-10 02:20:55 · answer #1 · answered by DEATH 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its obvious your more than friends, it seems he's afraid to admit it or to show you how he feels. he's confused and evidently you are too. games may be a safe form of hiding behind emotions but believe me things will only get more complicated and you'll both end up hurt, either because of your actions or because you will put a wedge between you. you want him as a friend but do you want him as a lover more. ask yourself this. just go for it, why let opportunities slip by when a friend could become more to you and you more to him. because you are older, your also wiser. believe me at 16 everything is fun and games, at 18 your more conscious.be the one to show the way but before you do, you must know what you want and nobody can tell you, you must search within yourself. i wish you all the luck
2007-05-10 09:26:20 · answer #2 · answered by bella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
puzzling ineuendos a flyin'. truth is, in the eyes of the law you could be a criminal! fyi; Y!A has your pc id and ip address and knows who and where you are (thank Homeland Security for that one!) and in fact, you may have already been turned in to the authorities (forget being reported to Y!A) by another poster and they wouldn't even have to make a post. just read what you wrote. i'd be very careful what i posted about my encounters with a 'youth' if i were you. and yes, even ineuendos can and will be used against you in a court of law. you have to know some lawyers make their names and build reputations on ppl just like you.
advice; take that BIG step back before we read your name in the papers and have to acknowlege your 15 mins of fame! lmao!!
2007-05-10 09:42:44 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with you staying best friends, you'll just have to keep your hands off each other (for reasons already mentioned). Just concentrate on other common interests.
It is very possible that as you go on you may find someone else (or he might). You're both young (ah to be that age again), many new things await you.
2007-05-10 09:29:51 · answer #4 · answered by nycguy10002 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm extremely puzzled as well.
Take a big step back, I guess and then enjoy your weekend, however you see fit.
2007-05-10 09:22:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need time to sort things out. Wait and think things through before you talk to him again. If he is pushy just tell him you need some time.
2007-05-10 09:59:58 · answer #6 · answered by Luis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋