Different opinions are not differences.Its human conduct. Nothing to be taken as personal and nothing to be remembered for ever. Live like friends. Very happily. Adjustment on impotent points is best. There should be no problem to approach on site. Very easy. Keep in touch with parents and laws.If you have further problems Keep yours and your spouse's views before us. We are sure to solve the problems. The foremost thing is husband should give very high regards to wife. If it is done see that Yours would be ideal couple. My sincere and best wishes. With all love and affection.P.V.N.
2007-05-11 04:39:58
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answer #1
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answered by baba 5
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Just because you both have different opinion doesn't mean that you can't have an understanding. Sometime (in fact most of the time) my husband agree to disagree. Good luck
2007-05-10 00:01:56
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answered by Ruthie 3
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When it's about 2 different personalities, ther ehas to be some difference in there opinoions over some or the other issue. What's important is how sportingly do you consider the other persons opinions. All we need to do in such situations is respect each others opinions and opt out for a better one.
All the best...
:-)
2007-05-10 08:43:30
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answer #3
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answered by plato's ghost 5
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No two individuals on this earth are same and so is the case with their opinions...
Having different opinions makes us think and adjust and that is what is called a relationship. If certain things are agreeable, it is fine. If you find something disagreeable, you must look at the merit of the matter and agree to disagree...
2007-05-10 01:40:54
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answered by sharma.kulbhushan 5
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we are talking about understanding, a real
good understanding and not the forced accomodating,
when we talk, husband and wife, means two individuals,
then it is not possible for any single,
either husband or wife to create that good understanding, till
both of them come to a single objective of creating harmony
with each other,
so both of should act simultaneously, to start with,
reading this...
(if only one party is present, then wait for other to join) and
then go ahead with the steps....
self-awareness... whether the other party understands or not
but first party should understand what he/she is doing,
speaking, acting, reacting etc.
(generally we are not aware what we are doing etc.)
for this awareness, first know your-self, for this you spent
a hour or so with your-self all alone and do nothing, just
be with your-self only, may take few days or weeks or even
a month, but you will know your-self in full,
when both the parties knows them-selves in full,
self-awareness developes automatically,
will lead to a healthy husband-wife relationship with ease,
believe you both me, it really works
and let the thousands of different openinon be there,
(openinons are always individual so can not be alike)
nothing could go wrong
2007-05-10 01:13:18
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answered by Karsan 3
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Remember each one of you were raised with different backgrounds and probably totally different styles of parenting. To truly have a GREAT marriage you have to recognize this first and RESPECT each others opinions. Its OK to disagree, whats not OK is when you can never compromise.
2007-05-10 00:05:32
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answered by Anonymous
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because they made for each other. and its not compulsary that everyone have same opinions. in husband and wife here is two most important things one is trust and second is understanding. as we live with our parents with different opnions.
2007-05-10 00:08:53
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answered by pooja d 2
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husband & wife can live with good understanding . by respicting the other one's opinion , even if it was totaly disagree with his own opinion , and try to discuss the two opinions to reach what's good for the family .
2007-05-10 00:16:11
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answered by m 3
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your going to disagree sometimes because you are two different people :) Me and my husband "Agree to Disagree". When something we are talking about or a situation happens that we differ on, instead of fighting about it we agree to disagree. Its much better than fighting :)
2007-05-10 00:01:56
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answered by Anonymous
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well they should agree with each other, if wife is not understand husband should sit down and explain it for her and same goes for her, arguing and fights doesn't solve anything
2007-05-10 02:50:20
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answered by maya 6
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