i just can't understand male's mind... i'm in love with a guy from my uni, but we don't know each other personally... he follows me around, always looks into my eyes, copies me, collides with me ''by chance'', always appear there where i am, but never comes up to me talking! and i'm sure he is not shy, he is too often surrounded with girls... and he is too attractive to be shy...and i can't make the first step, out of my rules, and i'm kinda afraid... and everything is so obvious and has been lasting for 2 years already! i just have no idea what's on his mind!
2007-05-09 23:49:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You kinda break your rules, something will bloom.
2007-05-09 23:53:23 · answer #1 · answered by RexRomanus 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well it's not proper form for a girls to be so forward as to make the first move and it's sort of refreshing to hear that some one has set rules and standards for them self ,,,,
He's the guy ,,,, He's the one that has to make the first move ,,,, Propriety dictates this ,,,, You can't warm up to him until he breaks the ice so to speak ,,,,
From what you say he knows of your existance so it's up to him to do something if anything is going to be done at all ,,,, The game should always start out with the ball in the guys court ,,,, You can't change that and if he's not making a move then there's nothing you can do about it ,,,,
Don't put your life on hold waiting for this guy ,,,,, There are plenty of other fish in the pond too ,,,, Try to find some one that's fun and exciting to be with ,,,, There's some one out there somewhere waiting to meet you ,,,,, Most of them come trouble and problem free and don't have any hang ups about breaking the ice ,,,,
Good post ,,,, It concerns a problem that every one has to deal with at some time in their lives ,,,, It rates a star from me for it ,,,,
Good luck with what ever you decide ,,,,
Yoda said this ,,,,,
2007-05-10 07:04:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of the hardest things in the world is for a man to go and talk to a girl he has a serious crush on. Just because he's attractive doesn't necessarily make him confident around women. Maybe you should be a little more assertive and strike up a conversation yourself? It would be a huge shame if the two of you never got together because both of you lack the courage to take the first step! Just smile at him one day and introduce yourself. Seize the day or you'll regret it! Do it before some other girl does!
2007-05-10 06:54:07 · answer #3 · answered by abdiver12 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should be happy, cos this shows that he is very serious and would pursue the relationship with you. It is only when both of u r serious in LOVE with each other, that's when both of u would be shy.
Teach u one way to see if that yr lover ONLY have u and that u also only have him. You purposely acted as seriously injuried and that u can see if he loves u and what is his response. When he loves u deeply , he will show concern to u, and would feel the pain like he is also injury and would quickly bring u to get treatment.
i thk both of u should be teenagers right??
hey, be patient and act it according. Some boys dont like talkative girls and dont like older girls.
whatever the case is, i wish u all the best to obtain yr LOVE.
Do email me at hjie91@yahoo.com.sg if u successfully obtain yr LOVE.
tHanKs
Bye! eYe!
2007-05-10 07:28:21 · answer #4 · answered by yO 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello buddy the guy is in luv with u else a boy surrounded by so many girls is feeling too shy to open up.
Better u take te first lest umay loose him since luv is important it doesn't matter who takes the first step.
Dear friend luv for the opposite sex creates altogether a new set of rules now what kind of ur own rules are ruling u.Just shrug n make the right move right away
2007-05-10 06:54:53 · answer #5 · answered by bnsrrinivasan 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well maybe hes just not very good with girls that he likes and maybe he doesnt know if you like him or not best thing to do is for you to tell him how you feel the worse he can do is turn you down and well by the sounds of it he really likes you so i hope this is the begining of something brilliant best of luck to you x
2007-05-10 06:53:19 · answer #6 · answered by aunt_me1989 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go up to him. He is probably too shy to come up to you.
2007-05-10 06:54:54 · answer #7 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
GRAB HIM! Say, "Hey...want to see this band with me?" And, point to a flier.
2007-05-10 06:52:26 · answer #8 · answered by What, what, what?? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you're daydreaming ?
2007-05-10 06:52:12 · answer #9 · answered by generica 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋